"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being called a gigolo

NeedToImprove

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Not directed to me, it happened to a friend of mine in one of our classes at university, the teacher said you look like a gigolo, and he and everyone in class became surprised, he is what i would call a metrosexual, not gay by any means, even though i dont like that word.

He works out, he does artificial tanning, shaves his chest, you know that kind of stuff, dresses ok you know black long sleeve shirts like this one (http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/images/bu/burton-classic-black-long-sleeve-smart-shirt.jpg, blazers, tight v-neck tshirts,etc.

Just wondering if when a woman calls you that is she trying to tease you, or just being a b***c.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tide

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A girl I messed around with before has re-named me 'player' to be a b****.
Not many people say 'gigolo' around here but I think its the same- they're saying they WOULD be interested, if you didnt get around as much.

It winds me up because of how many people see me as 'one night stand material only' because im a sexaholic and they doubt they could trust me in a LTR. or even just an R. :|

Thats come straight from a girl I had one-i-tis for for a long time :( Damn being a player can be a pain in the ass when you meet someone you like :L
 

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its nothing bad. It gives you a reputation. Any reputation is better than no reputation when you're dealing with women.
 
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