"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Being c*ckedblocked by her best friend

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This girl and I have a thing...can't explain what it its...but its something. We flirt, we're fun and playful but I get none of the benefits bc she gets too uptight for some reason when she "thinks" about it. Anyway I can put her on the backburner...No problem.

THE REAL PROBLEM: Her best friend is very envious and jealous of the relationship that I have with her. And she tries to sabotage it by talking smack about her to me behind her back and she talks sh*t about me to her behind my back.....

How should I handle this? Do I tell her best friend about this or not? Or should I not care about his at all and just let it be...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well do your best to get on her mates good side be it giving her more attention or bring a wingman along who will entertain her whilst you work it. Would be useful to have the ****block bigging you up to the girl though
 
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Sounds like you need a wingman. If you can't get one your going to have to do some good old fashioned social ball busting. A little humor can go a long way. It almost sounds like she's jealous for your attention.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It seems like she's jealous of my relationship with her and not necessarily attention cause the girl that c*ckblocking see's me more than than her best friend.
 
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Corey said:
Well do your best to get on her mates good side be it giving her more attention or bring a wingman along who will entertain her whilst you work it. Would be useful to have the ****block bigging you up to the girl though
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exactly. if her friends dont want to F you too.. your not gonna last long..
 
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She's got a boyfriend too!!! ...and its one of my very good friends.

She's very envious and jealous of her best friend....and for some reason she can't stand the fact that I have "whatever it is" with her best friend.
 
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PS79 said:
She's got a boyfriend too!!! ...and its one of my very good friends.

She's very envious and jealous of her best friend....and for some reason she can't stand the fact that I have "whatever it is" with her best friend.
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If you can't calm her down, can you drive her crazy? Incoherent crazy. Any insignificant things that piss her off?

Make her lose respect.
 
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PS79 said:
This girl and I have a thing...can't explain what it its...but its something. We flirt, we're fun and playful but I get none of the benefits bc she gets too uptight for some reason when she "thinks" about it. Anyway I can put her on the backburner...No problem.

THE REAL PROBLEM: Her best friend is very envious and jealous of the relationship that I have with her. And she tries to sabotage it by talking smack about her to me behind her back and she talks sh*t about me to her behind my back.....

How should I handle this? Do I tell her best friend about this or not? Or should I not care about his at all and just let it be...
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You shouldn't "handle" it. You be polite and respectful to the best friend and keep treating the girl the way you usually do. If the best friend is still a jerk, you did your best. If the girl doesn't want to see you because of her best friend and is that easily influenced, you don't want her anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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