"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being c*ckedblocked by her best friend

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PS79

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This girl and I have a thing...can't explain what it its...but its something. We flirt, we're fun and playful but I get none of the benefits bc she gets too uptight for some reason when she "thinks" about it. Anyway I can put her on the backburner...No problem.

THE REAL PROBLEM: Her best friend is very envious and jealous of the relationship that I have with her. And she tries to sabotage it by talking smack about her to me behind her back and she talks sh*t about me to her behind my back.....

How should I handle this? Do I tell her best friend about this or not? Or should I not care about his at all and just let it be...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well do your best to get on her mates good side be it giving her more attention or bring a wingman along who will entertain her whilst you work it. Would be useful to have the ****block bigging you up to the girl though
 
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Sounds like you need a wingman. If you can't get one your going to have to do some good old fashioned social ball busting. A little humor can go a long way. It almost sounds like she's jealous for your attention.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It seems like she's jealous of my relationship with her and not necessarily attention cause the girl that c*ckblocking see's me more than than her best friend.
 
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Corey said:
Well do your best to get on her mates good side be it giving her more attention or bring a wingman along who will entertain her whilst you work it. Would be useful to have the ****block bigging you up to the girl though
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exactly. if her friends dont want to F you too.. your not gonna last long..
 
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She's got a boyfriend too!!! ...and its one of my very good friends.

She's very envious and jealous of her best friend....and for some reason she can't stand the fact that I have "whatever it is" with her best friend.
 
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PS79 said:
She's got a boyfriend too!!! ...and its one of my very good friends.

She's very envious and jealous of her best friend....and for some reason she can't stand the fact that I have "whatever it is" with her best friend.
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If you can't calm her down, can you drive her crazy? Incoherent crazy. Any insignificant things that piss her off?

Make her lose respect.
 
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PS79 said:
This girl and I have a thing...can't explain what it its...but its something. We flirt, we're fun and playful but I get none of the benefits bc she gets too uptight for some reason when she "thinks" about it. Anyway I can put her on the backburner...No problem.

THE REAL PROBLEM: Her best friend is very envious and jealous of the relationship that I have with her. And she tries to sabotage it by talking smack about her to me behind her back and she talks sh*t about me to her behind my back.....

How should I handle this? Do I tell her best friend about this or not? Or should I not care about his at all and just let it be...
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You shouldn't "handle" it. You be polite and respectful to the best friend and keep treating the girl the way you usually do. If the best friend is still a jerk, you did your best. If the girl doesn't want to see you because of her best friend and is that easily influenced, you don't want her anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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