"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being c*ckedblocked by her best friend

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This girl and I have a thing...can't explain what it its...but its something. We flirt, we're fun and playful but I get none of the benefits bc she gets too uptight for some reason when she "thinks" about it. Anyway I can put her on the backburner...No problem.

THE REAL PROBLEM: Her best friend is very envious and jealous of the relationship that I have with her. And she tries to sabotage it by talking smack about her to me behind her back and she talks sh*t about me to her behind my back.....

How should I handle this? Do I tell her best friend about this or not? Or should I not care about his at all and just let it be...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well do your best to get on her mates good side be it giving her more attention or bring a wingman along who will entertain her whilst you work it. Would be useful to have the ****block bigging you up to the girl though
 
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Sounds like you need a wingman. If you can't get one your going to have to do some good old fashioned social ball busting. A little humor can go a long way. It almost sounds like she's jealous for your attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It seems like she's jealous of my relationship with her and not necessarily attention cause the girl that c*ckblocking see's me more than than her best friend.
 
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Corey said:
Well do your best to get on her mates good side be it giving her more attention or bring a wingman along who will entertain her whilst you work it. Would be useful to have the ****block bigging you up to the girl though
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exactly. if her friends dont want to F you too.. your not gonna last long..
 
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She's got a boyfriend too!!! ...and its one of my very good friends.

She's very envious and jealous of her best friend....and for some reason she can't stand the fact that I have "whatever it is" with her best friend.
 
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PS79 said:
She's got a boyfriend too!!! ...and its one of my very good friends.

She's very envious and jealous of her best friend....and for some reason she can't stand the fact that I have "whatever it is" with her best friend.
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If you can't calm her down, can you drive her crazy? Incoherent crazy. Any insignificant things that piss her off?

Make her lose respect.
 
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PS79 said:
This girl and I have a thing...can't explain what it its...but its something. We flirt, we're fun and playful but I get none of the benefits bc she gets too uptight for some reason when she "thinks" about it. Anyway I can put her on the backburner...No problem.

THE REAL PROBLEM: Her best friend is very envious and jealous of the relationship that I have with her. And she tries to sabotage it by talking smack about her to me behind her back and she talks sh*t about me to her behind my back.....

How should I handle this? Do I tell her best friend about this or not? Or should I not care about his at all and just let it be...
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You shouldn't "handle" it. You be polite and respectful to the best friend and keep treating the girl the way you usually do. If the best friend is still a jerk, you did your best. If the girl doesn't want to see you because of her best friend and is that easily influenced, you don't want her anyway.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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