"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being Bi-Polar and using it to my advantage

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Biggie

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I'm with Crissco, I've been diagnosed as bi-polar as well, and I also suffer from social anxiety. I definitely see a difference in my highs and lows compared to other people. When I'm depressed, I'm incredibly depressed to the point where i want to kill everyone. It can be because of the littlest thing that just frustrates the hell out of me. But then when I'm happy, I'm happy about everything and treat everyone like they are kings and queens. I can understand why it's off-putting to some people lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd recommend getting mood stabilizers or Lithium supplements. Yes, they're pills and I know a great many people on this site are against taking medication to solve problems but in this case Bi-Polar Disorder is caused by a chemical imbalance (usually a Lithium deficiency) in the brain and the only way to fix it is to balance things out with meds.
 
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Umm, being around a bipolar person, especially being in a relationship with them, is miserable without them being on lithium or some kind of medication for it.
 
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