Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being Bi-Polar and using it to my advantage

Biggie

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I'm with Crissco, I've been diagnosed as bi-polar as well, and I also suffer from social anxiety. I definitely see a difference in my highs and lows compared to other people. When I'm depressed, I'm incredibly depressed to the point where i want to kill everyone. It can be because of the littlest thing that just frustrates the hell out of me. But then when I'm happy, I'm happy about everything and treat everyone like they are kings and queens. I can understand why it's off-putting to some people lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Blood Angel

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I'd recommend getting mood stabilizers or Lithium supplements. Yes, they're pills and I know a great many people on this site are against taking medication to solve problems but in this case Bi-Polar Disorder is caused by a chemical imbalance (usually a Lithium deficiency) in the brain and the only way to fix it is to balance things out with meds.
 

blueline

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Umm, being around a bipolar person, especially being in a relationship with them, is miserable without them being on lithium or some kind of medication for it.
 
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