“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Being Bi-Polar and using it to my advantage

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Im diagnosed as bi-polar. I have my highs where I feel great and I can get the girl all excised then I get my lows where I feel tired, then I can be right in the middle. Is there anyway I can use being bi-polar to my advantage?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crissco said:
Im diagnosed as bi-polar. I have my highs where I feel great and I can get the girl all excised then I get my lows where I feel tired, then I can be right in the middle. Is there anyway I can use being bi-polar to my advantage?
Not really, unless you want to atract crazy women. The way I try to deal with stuff like that is, when I´m feeling low I avoid socializing, try to turn it into me time as much as I can, use the time improve myself and "recharge" myself.

It´s really confusing to ppl when they see you one day and you´re the most social and fun person ever, and then the other day it´s like you are another person. So now I try to avoid putting myself in those situations.
 

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Radharc said:
Not really, unless you want to atract crazy women. The way I try to deal with stuff like that is, when I´m feeling low I avoid socializing, try to turn it into me time as much as I can, use the time improve myself and "recharge" myself.

It´s really confusing to ppl when they see you one day and you´re the most social and fun person ever, and then the other day it´s like you are another person. So now I try to avoid putting myself in those situations.
Yea I noticed I attend to attract the crazys at times. Its sucks but im def brining it on my self in a way. Thats exactly what I do when im down, i "recharge" by reading a lot.
 

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I woud never want to be bipolar, but I've sometimes envied their manic phases. Seems like a great chance to get things done and have high energy, as long as you don't get all psychotic while you're at it, like some do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I thought BPD was just some myth made up by woman as an excuse for their actions when they're being a b!tch?
 

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I'm bi-polar as well, and it hasn't really worked to my advantage. For girls who aren't crazy, they actually get turned off because you can be nice one second and cuss em out the next. And scars, BPD is Borderline Personality Disorder, not Bi-polar.
 

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Why don't you fix yourself before you put a poor girl through your mood swings.
 

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Your advantage is that you got diagnosed and hopefully are dealing with it well.
Exactly brotha. Reps for the awesome attitude
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Falcon25 said:
Why don't you fix yourself before you put a poor girl through your mood swings.
Falcon, being bi-polar isn't something you can "fix". You can go to counseling and take meds but its not going to just go away like its the flu.

And, as Crissco's response shows to say that is very offensive to those that suffer from bi-polar disorder. Same goes for people with clinical depression and anxiety disorders. Its akin to telling people to "fix" their diabetes.

I'd suggest in the future you take some time to learn about someone's disorder before suggesting they simply fix it.

Crissco, minus the manic highs I know it is. I suffer from depression and social anxiety disorder. I understand how bad those lows can be. If you have any interests in art, writing or any other ways of expressing yourself, try to do that when in your lows. I find some of my best photographs and writings come out when I'm down. Its also therapeutic.
 

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theunflushables said:
Falcon, being bi-polar isn't something you can "fix". You can go to counseling and take meds but its not going to just go away like its the flu.

And, as Crissco's response shows to say that is very offensive to those that suffer from bi-polar disorder. Same goes for people with clinical depression and anxiety disorders. Its akin to telling people to "fix" their diabetes.

I'd suggest in the future you take some time to learn about someone's disorder before suggesting they simply fix it.

Crissco, minus the manic highs I know it is. I suffer from depression and social anxiety disorder. I understand how bad those lows can be. If you have any interests in art, writing or any other ways of expressing yourself, try to do that when in your lows. I find some of my best photographs and writings come out when I'm down. Its also therapeutic.
Thanks for that awesome response, its appreciated. Im into bodybuilding. Thats my way of expressing my self.
 

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Thanks for that awesome response, its appreciated. Im into bodybuilding. Thats my way of expressing my self.
Awesome! Weight lifting is great way to let the anger and the aggression out on the down days. Just have to find a way to be motivated enough to get up and going, unless you have no problem with that. I know some days it can be hard enough just to get out of bed.
 

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Thats my exact problem lol. Getting up and going. Its all good though, I grab a cup of coffee and im good to go.
 

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Crissco said:
How about you go fu*k youself
Did you just have another episode??? Calm down, no woman will want to stay with you if you can't control your disease. Take your meds, relax, hit the gym, and then worry about dating.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dj_china said:
does bp mean your highs are higher than normal? or just the lows?
a bit of both. mainly for me when i get high i get high where i feel amazing. when i depressed I get very depressed, it sucks at times but the highs make up for it lol
 

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Just because you're happy one day and depressed the other doesn't make you bi-polar. It just means you're probably depressed and too sensitive.

I'm sort of like that too but ive been improving. Get out and become more social, do things that you enjoy so everyday when you wake up, you have something to look forward to.
 

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kush said:
Just because you're happy one day and depressed the other doesn't make you bi-polar. It just means you're probably depressed and too sensitive.

I'm sort of like that too but ive been improving. Get out and become more social, do things that you enjoy so everyday when you wake up, you have something to look forward to.
Im bi-polar believe me bro. I know being diagnosed doesnt always mean shi* but i always knew there wasnt something always "normal" about me. But yea being social plays a biigggg roll in my life, helps a crap load
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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