"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being Bi-Polar and using it to my advantage

Biggie

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I'm with Crissco, I've been diagnosed as bi-polar as well, and I also suffer from social anxiety. I definitely see a difference in my highs and lows compared to other people. When I'm depressed, I'm incredibly depressed to the point where i want to kill everyone. It can be because of the littlest thing that just frustrates the hell out of me. But then when I'm happy, I'm happy about everything and treat everyone like they are kings and queens. I can understand why it's off-putting to some people lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Blood Angel

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I'd recommend getting mood stabilizers or Lithium supplements. Yes, they're pills and I know a great many people on this site are against taking medication to solve problems but in this case Bi-Polar Disorder is caused by a chemical imbalance (usually a Lithium deficiency) in the brain and the only way to fix it is to balance things out with meds.
 

blueline

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Umm, being around a bipolar person, especially being in a relationship with them, is miserable without them being on lithium or some kind of medication for it.
 
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