"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being average, under 6 feet, FTW

vatoloco

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Borknagar said:
Tall guys, guys, guys that dress well, are he guys that go home alone. Being tall, ad look conscious is VERY unattractive to women.
HAHAHA!!! :crackup:

When I was an AFC back in my 20s, I pulled tail thanks to my height, looks and clothes. Sure, I couldn't keep said tail but hey, women were attracted to my physical characteristics.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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falconslax89

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this is not even a debate. of course many different factors go into what women find attractive, but it is a FACT that on average women prefer taller men over shorter. why wouldnt they?
 

RedZone

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The more you over think the height situation the more of the problem it will become.
 

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Can't say I've ever given two ****s about how tall I am ever.

The exception is having to adjust the pin height in the squat rack after a giraffe has been doing quarter-squats with the foam padding.
 

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lol many don juans gave opinions here, and i do lean toward the "taller the better" side, but i think the smart people believe in inner strength more than the height or looks itself. of course, phenotype is such an advantage to have... cannot be overlooked, but average or under-average looks and height with solid inner strength and manliness can score down almost any quality women. the problem is that finding/developing those inner strength is hard as hell; i think that's why lot of people including myself sometimes blame or take big deal in looks and heights.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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