"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being average, under 6 feet, FTW

vatoloco

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Borknagar said:
Tall guys, guys, guys that dress well, are he guys that go home alone. Being tall, ad look conscious is VERY unattractive to women.
HAHAHA!!! :crackup:

When I was an AFC back in my 20s, I pulled tail thanks to my height, looks and clothes. Sure, I couldn't keep said tail but hey, women were attracted to my physical characteristics.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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falconslax89

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this is not even a debate. of course many different factors go into what women find attractive, but it is a FACT that on average women prefer taller men over shorter. why wouldnt they?
 

RedZone

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The more you over think the height situation the more of the problem it will become.
 

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Can't say I've ever given two ****s about how tall I am ever.

The exception is having to adjust the pin height in the squat rack after a giraffe has been doing quarter-squats with the foam padding.
 

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lol many don juans gave opinions here, and i do lean toward the "taller the better" side, but i think the smart people believe in inner strength more than the height or looks itself. of course, phenotype is such an advantage to have... cannot be overlooked, but average or under-average looks and height with solid inner strength and manliness can score down almost any quality women. the problem is that finding/developing those inner strength is hard as hell; i think that's why lot of people including myself sometimes blame or take big deal in looks and heights.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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