"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Being average, under 6 feet, FTW

vatoloco

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 5, 2010
Messages
1,408
Reaction score
65
Borknagar said:
Tall guys, guys, guys that dress well, are he guys that go home alone. Being tall, ad look conscious is VERY unattractive to women.
HAHAHA!!! :crackup:

When I was an AFC back in my 20s, I pulled tail thanks to my height, looks and clothes. Sure, I couldn't keep said tail but hey, women were attracted to my physical characteristics.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

falconslax89

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2009
Messages
249
Reaction score
3
Location
Earth
this is not even a debate. of course many different factors go into what women find attractive, but it is a FACT that on average women prefer taller men over shorter. why wouldnt they?
 

RedZone

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 4, 2009
Messages
278
Reaction score
46
The more you over think the height situation the more of the problem it will become.
 

Quiksilver

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2006
Messages
2,813
Reaction score
55
Can't say I've ever given two ****s about how tall I am ever.

The exception is having to adjust the pin height in the squat rack after a giraffe has been doing quarter-squats with the foam padding.
 

moneyisking

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2009
Messages
626
Reaction score
11
lol many don juans gave opinions here, and i do lean toward the "taller the better" side, but i think the smart people believe in inner strength more than the height or looks itself. of course, phenotype is such an advantage to have... cannot be overlooked, but average or under-average looks and height with solid inner strength and manliness can score down almost any quality women. the problem is that finding/developing those inner strength is hard as hell; i think that's why lot of people including myself sometimes blame or take big deal in looks and heights.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top