"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being an Indian DJ

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Paranoid

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Damn....I've got competition :D
 
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Indian cities

How prevalent is dating in large Indian cities? I have heard that it has been exploding, especially since Indian cities are rapidly approaching First World status, and arranged marriages are quickly becoming limited to villages.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Paranoid

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Dating has become common in bi cities over here.However it doesnt result into marriages.Arranged marriage still is the most preferred type of marriage.Even in big cities.But i see this changing over the next 20 years or so.
 

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Yes, the whole approach to marriage is changing quite fast. People will be more open to love marriages a few years down the line.

But somethings ofcourse will never change.
 

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Last night I went out and saw this stunning blonde, really beautiful with this incredibly unattractive indian dude, he
was in really bad shape, had pimples all over, man he was ugly! But the way he carried himself, damn! he had presence....
 

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I went out with a few friends last night. One was a guy from Sri Lanka. He was born in the states, but was as dark as any indian person I have ever met. Any ways we met up at hooters where his girlfriend works. This girl was a short latina or Italian girl, really hot. We leave hooters and go to a club and he has these to fine ass girls waiting for him. One is his FB, a cute white girl, and another is this tall biracial girl (super freak). This Sri Lankin kid is the biggest playboy I know. He has confidence for days, and has no problem mackin white, black, spanish, asian, etc. He aint a bad looking guy, but he is kind of short. The guy just likes to party.

If you got game, and you are fun to be around race really does not matter.
 

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from bombay

hey guys even i am from bombay anyone else from bombay we guys can hook up and go out sarging together. i thought i am the only pick up artist in bombay but it nice to hear that there are other guys who are in the game and are from bombay. it would be fun going out sarging together. what say!!!!!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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puas in bombay

Hey guys, i normally don't hang around here but i got this link from thundercat's site. I'm really happy to see that there are some like minded people in bombay ! Guys, we must meet up and sarge together. That way i also won't make excuses for not going out and we can kick each other's asses if we falter !
Firestarter, paranoid, emperor and others from bombay or even other cities in India who are reading this drop me a line at [email protected] or a blank msg to [email protected]
I just formed the group 2 mins back, so don't be surprised to see no messages posted !!!

Peaceout
WW
 

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im indian too!

I never knew that ANY indians were on this board thats kool to know that there are..

I live right by edison NJ, and there are soo many indians there...but being the DJ that i am :p , i have a great advantage. Most girls are used to indian AFC's(all of them are) and they are amazed at the game that ive developed

another advantage that i have is that i dont look 100% indian, i can pass for a rican, in fact most people think i am at first...so in the clubs i have better luck..here some of my pics, post urs!:

www.patmedia.net/anildua/sandipcoke.jpg (me on the bottom right in the jersey)
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mypic.jpg
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mee.jpg

oh by the way, im 17...ive been on this site since i was around 15
 

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I never realized what a complex I turned this into - classic AFC behaviour, anyways, I'm largely free of these things now. I just go for my approaches no matter what...

interracial relationships are rising like crazy though...the "in" race these days seems to be middle-eastern, even with all the 9/11 stuff, blondes are running like crazy to dark-skinned types, it's quite common here in NYC. ..i usually pass for rican or middle-eastern...
 
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You Indian and arabs arte not as handsome as Puerto Ricans but if you have "game" you may pass!! :)
 

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from ahmedabad

hey guys, it's great to know that i'm not the only dj from india. seriously, i thought that.

it'd be kewl to go sarging together, although i'm from ahmedabad, gujarat. if anybody from

ahmedabad is reading this, please drop a line at [email protected]

live zen
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey From Mumbai too
But im a teen . 17
I guess u guys are older .
Anyways good to know other exist .
(Dont usaully post - Lazy )
 
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