firestarter
Don Juan
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Dude, even im in Bombay.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Being an Indian DJ
- Thread starter kairos
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Who is John Galt?
Don Juan
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Indian cities
How prevalent is dating in large Indian cities? I have heard that it has been exploding, especially since Indian cities are rapidly approaching First World status, and arranged marriages are quickly becoming limited to villages.
How prevalent is dating in large Indian cities? I have heard that it has been exploding, especially since Indian cities are rapidly approaching First World status, and arranged marriages are quickly becoming limited to villages.
macknetikcharm
Don Juan
Pimpin iz a SKULL game not about how U look fool.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Paranoid
Senior Don Juan
Dating has become common in bi cities over here.However it doesnt result into marriages.Arranged marriage still is the most preferred type of marriage.Even in big cities.But i see this changing over the next 20 years or so.
firestarter
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Yes, the whole approach to marriage is changing quite fast. People will be more open to love marriages a few years down the line.
But somethings ofcourse will never change.
But somethings ofcourse will never change.
Last night I went out and saw this stunning blonde, really beautiful with this incredibly unattractive indian dude, he
was in really bad shape, had pimples all over, man he was ugly! But the way he carried himself, damn! he had presence....
was in really bad shape, had pimples all over, man he was ugly! But the way he carried himself, damn! he had presence....
mrbrooklyn
Don Juan
I went out with a few friends last night. One was a guy from Sri Lanka. He was born in the states, but was as dark as any indian person I have ever met. Any ways we met up at hooters where his girlfriend works. This girl was a short latina or Italian girl, really hot. We leave hooters and go to a club and he has these to fine ass girls waiting for him. One is his FB, a cute white girl, and another is this tall biracial girl (super freak). This Sri Lankin kid is the biggest playboy I know. He has confidence for days, and has no problem mackin white, black, spanish, asian, etc. He aint a bad looking guy, but he is kind of short. The guy just likes to party.
If you got game, and you are fun to be around race really does not matter.
If you got game, and you are fun to be around race really does not matter.
the emperor
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from bombay
hey guys even i am from bombay anyone else from bombay we guys can hook up and go out sarging together. i thought i am the only pick up artist in bombay but it nice to hear that there are other guys who are in the game and are from bombay. it would be fun going out sarging together. what say!!!!!!!!
hey guys even i am from bombay anyone else from bombay we guys can hook up and go out sarging together. i thought i am the only pick up artist in bombay but it nice to hear that there are other guys who are in the game and are from bombay. it would be fun going out sarging together. what say!!!!!!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
puas in bombay
Hey guys, i normally don't hang around here but i got this link from thundercat's site. I'm really happy to see that there are some like minded people in bombay ! Guys, we must meet up and sarge together. That way i also won't make excuses for not going out and we can kick each other's asses if we falter !
Firestarter, paranoid, emperor and others from bombay or even other cities in India who are reading this drop me a line at [email protected] or a blank msg to [email protected]
I just formed the group 2 mins back, so don't be surprised to see no messages posted !!!
Peaceout
WW
Hey guys, i normally don't hang around here but i got this link from thundercat's site. I'm really happy to see that there are some like minded people in bombay ! Guys, we must meet up and sarge together. That way i also won't make excuses for not going out and we can kick each other's asses if we falter !
Firestarter, paranoid, emperor and others from bombay or even other cities in India who are reading this drop me a line at [email protected] or a blank msg to [email protected]
I just formed the group 2 mins back, so don't be surprised to see no messages posted !!!
Peaceout
WW
im indian too!
I never knew that ANY indians were on this board thats kool to know that there are..
I live right by edison NJ, and there are soo many indians there...but being the DJ that i am
, i have a great advantage. Most girls are used to indian AFC's(all of them are) and they are amazed at the game that ive developed
another advantage that i have is that i dont look 100% indian, i can pass for a rican, in fact most people think i am at first...so in the clubs i have better luck..here some of my pics, post urs!:
www.patmedia.net/anildua/sandipcoke.jpg (me on the bottom right in the jersey)
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mypic.jpg
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mee.jpg
oh by the way, im 17...ive been on this site since i was around 15
I never knew that ANY indians were on this board thats kool to know that there are..
I live right by edison NJ, and there are soo many indians there...but being the DJ that i am
, i have a great advantage. Most girls are used to indian AFC's(all of them are) and they are amazed at the game that ive developedanother advantage that i have is that i dont look 100% indian, i can pass for a rican, in fact most people think i am at first...so in the clubs i have better luck..here some of my pics, post urs!:
www.patmedia.net/anildua/sandipcoke.jpg (me on the bottom right in the jersey)
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mypic.jpg
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mee.jpg
oh by the way, im 17...ive been on this site since i was around 15
I never realized what a complex I turned this into - classic AFC behaviour, anyways, I'm largely free of these things now. I just go for my approaches no matter what...
interracial relationships are rising like crazy though...the "in" race these days seems to be middle-eastern, even with all the 9/11 stuff, blondes are running like crazy to dark-skinned types, it's quite common here in NYC. ..i usually pass for rican or middle-eastern...
interracial relationships are rising like crazy though...the "in" race these days seems to be middle-eastern, even with all the 9/11 stuff, blondes are running like crazy to dark-skinned types, it's quite common here in NYC. ..i usually pass for rican or middle-eastern...
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You Indian and arabs arte not as handsome as Puerto Ricans but if you have "game" you may pass!!
Zen
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from ahmedabad
hey guys, it's great to know that i'm not the only dj from india. seriously, i thought that.
it'd be kewl to go sarging together, although i'm from ahmedabad, gujarat. if anybody from
ahmedabad is reading this, please drop a line at [email protected]
live zen
hey guys, it's great to know that i'm not the only dj from india. seriously, i thought that.
it'd be kewl to go sarging together, although i'm from ahmedabad, gujarat. if anybody from
ahmedabad is reading this, please drop a line at [email protected]
live zen
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.