"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being an Indian DJ

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Paranoid

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Damn....I've got competition :D
 
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Indian cities

How prevalent is dating in large Indian cities? I have heard that it has been exploding, especially since Indian cities are rapidly approaching First World status, and arranged marriages are quickly becoming limited to villages.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paranoid

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Dating has become common in bi cities over here.However it doesnt result into marriages.Arranged marriage still is the most preferred type of marriage.Even in big cities.But i see this changing over the next 20 years or so.
 

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Yes, the whole approach to marriage is changing quite fast. People will be more open to love marriages a few years down the line.

But somethings ofcourse will never change.
 

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Last night I went out and saw this stunning blonde, really beautiful with this incredibly unattractive indian dude, he
was in really bad shape, had pimples all over, man he was ugly! But the way he carried himself, damn! he had presence....
 

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I went out with a few friends last night. One was a guy from Sri Lanka. He was born in the states, but was as dark as any indian person I have ever met. Any ways we met up at hooters where his girlfriend works. This girl was a short latina or Italian girl, really hot. We leave hooters and go to a club and he has these to fine ass girls waiting for him. One is his FB, a cute white girl, and another is this tall biracial girl (super freak). This Sri Lankin kid is the biggest playboy I know. He has confidence for days, and has no problem mackin white, black, spanish, asian, etc. He aint a bad looking guy, but he is kind of short. The guy just likes to party.

If you got game, and you are fun to be around race really does not matter.
 

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from bombay

hey guys even i am from bombay anyone else from bombay we guys can hook up and go out sarging together. i thought i am the only pick up artist in bombay but it nice to hear that there are other guys who are in the game and are from bombay. it would be fun going out sarging together. what say!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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puas in bombay

Hey guys, i normally don't hang around here but i got this link from thundercat's site. I'm really happy to see that there are some like minded people in bombay ! Guys, we must meet up and sarge together. That way i also won't make excuses for not going out and we can kick each other's asses if we falter !
Firestarter, paranoid, emperor and others from bombay or even other cities in India who are reading this drop me a line at [email protected] or a blank msg to [email protected]
I just formed the group 2 mins back, so don't be surprised to see no messages posted !!!

Peaceout
WW
 

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im indian too!

I never knew that ANY indians were on this board thats kool to know that there are..

I live right by edison NJ, and there are soo many indians there...but being the DJ that i am :p , i have a great advantage. Most girls are used to indian AFC's(all of them are) and they are amazed at the game that ive developed

another advantage that i have is that i dont look 100% indian, i can pass for a rican, in fact most people think i am at first...so in the clubs i have better luck..here some of my pics, post urs!:

www.patmedia.net/anildua/sandipcoke.jpg (me on the bottom right in the jersey)
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mypic.jpg
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mee.jpg

oh by the way, im 17...ive been on this site since i was around 15
 

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I never realized what a complex I turned this into - classic AFC behaviour, anyways, I'm largely free of these things now. I just go for my approaches no matter what...

interracial relationships are rising like crazy though...the "in" race these days seems to be middle-eastern, even with all the 9/11 stuff, blondes are running like crazy to dark-skinned types, it's quite common here in NYC. ..i usually pass for rican or middle-eastern...
 
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You Indian and arabs arte not as handsome as Puerto Ricans but if you have "game" you may pass!! :)
 

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from ahmedabad

hey guys, it's great to know that i'm not the only dj from india. seriously, i thought that.

it'd be kewl to go sarging together, although i'm from ahmedabad, gujarat. if anybody from

ahmedabad is reading this, please drop a line at [email protected]

live zen
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey From Mumbai too
But im a teen . 17
I guess u guys are older .
Anyways good to know other exist .
(Dont usaully post - Lazy )
 
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