I started messaging this girl I know kinda likes me, but I'm not interested in her. I know every time I do, she gives me attention. I did it just because I was bored. I don't get any satisfaction out of it, and I don't understand how women do. Why does it matter if a guy you have no interest in gives you attention? I never understood that. Attention *****s are screwed up in the head.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Being an attention *****
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Because women in general have much lower self-esteem than most men deep down inside, and love the positive attention.rrrrr said:
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It's a character issue.
Most Attention Whhores, male or FEMALE, are self-obsessed, narcissistic, emotionally masturbatory, borderline sociopathic, navel-pickers who have absolutely NO regard for the feelings of others.
When the only thing you care about is YOU, and you want to get your ego stroked, then I imagine that ANYBODY within reach will do.
March on.
Most Attention Whhores, male or FEMALE, are self-obsessed, narcissistic, emotionally masturbatory, borderline sociopathic, navel-pickers who have absolutely NO regard for the feelings of others.
When the only thing you care about is YOU, and you want to get your ego stroked, then I imagine that ANYBODY within reach will do.
March on.