"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Being an attention *****

rrrrr

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I started messaging this girl I know kinda likes me, but I'm not interested in her. I know every time I do, she gives me attention. I did it just because I was bored. I don't get any satisfaction out of it, and I don't understand how women do. Why does it matter if a guy you have no interest in gives you attention? I never understood that. Attention *****s are screwed up in the head.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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rrrrr said:
I started messaging this girl I know kinda likes me, but I'm not interested in her. I know every time I do, she gives me attention. I did it just because I was bored. I don't get any satisfaction out of it, and I don't understand how women do. Why does it matter if a guy you have no interest in gives you attention? I never understood that. Attention *****s are screwed up in the head.
Because women in general have much lower self-esteem than most men deep down inside, and love the positive attention.
 

Victory Unlimited

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It's a character issue.

Most Attention Whhores, male or FEMALE, are self-obsessed, narcissistic, emotionally masturbatory, borderline sociopathic, navel-pickers who have absolutely NO regard for the feelings of others.

When the only thing you care about is YOU, and you want to get your ego stroked, then I imagine that ANYBODY within reach will do.


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