"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being Able to END a LTR

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djpassion2008

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Okay guys I feel like I've hit all the major marks of being a DJ. I can approach in any scenario, can break sets, initiate KINO, read diff types of girls, and close the deal....FAST.

But I got into a LTR and I realize that I am lacking a HUGE part right now. I can't seem to break up with her. We've been going out over a year and a half and there's this emotional connection between us.

The problem is there are MANY things I like about her and A LOT Of things I realize that make us not compatible. Plus I'm finding her a lot less physically attractive.

I feel bad stringing on a girl because I feel like she should be with someone who really likes her. At the same time, it's hard to cut it off. This is obviously the test that seperates a true DJ from just a player and any opinions from others who might have been in this scenario would be helpful.

Any advice is GREATLY appreciated.Thanks in advance
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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deathfromabove

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You might find it a ***** to not be with her after you break up with her.
That's what I found with my previous ex, that I had reasons to end the relationship, but regardless of the fact, I'm finding it very difficult to get over her.
So are you over her?
 
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frisco

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Ha same situation here, Girl fell in love with me is sweet and trustworthy. But Im still young and have seen her less physicaly attractive. She told me she was in love with me and i told her she should Move on and find someone that felt the same for her. its been a week and i still have the emotional connection and every day she calls asking for me back. Who knows if there is a true DJ way of breaking it off with a girl. Its ****ing live i guess.
 
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How about that old saying, "A man's gotta do, what a man's gotta do."

If you are over the relationship get the **** out...it's probably not going to get any better.

Don't be fooled though, even if you are over her if you actually ever cared for her, ending the relationship will not necessarily be an easy thing to do. But the easy way out is often for cowards...but you can remember in your mind, if it is the right thing for you then it is the right thing for her too but it could take her a while to see that.
 
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