"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being Able to END a LTR

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djpassion2008

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Okay guys I feel like I've hit all the major marks of being a DJ. I can approach in any scenario, can break sets, initiate KINO, read diff types of girls, and close the deal....FAST.

But I got into a LTR and I realize that I am lacking a HUGE part right now. I can't seem to break up with her. We've been going out over a year and a half and there's this emotional connection between us.

The problem is there are MANY things I like about her and A LOT Of things I realize that make us not compatible. Plus I'm finding her a lot less physically attractive.

I feel bad stringing on a girl because I feel like she should be with someone who really likes her. At the same time, it's hard to cut it off. This is obviously the test that seperates a true DJ from just a player and any opinions from others who might have been in this scenario would be helpful.

Any advice is GREATLY appreciated.Thanks in advance
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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deathfromabove

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You might find it a ***** to not be with her after you break up with her.
That's what I found with my previous ex, that I had reasons to end the relationship, but regardless of the fact, I'm finding it very difficult to get over her.
So are you over her?
 
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frisco

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Ha same situation here, Girl fell in love with me is sweet and trustworthy. But Im still young and have seen her less physicaly attractive. She told me she was in love with me and i told her she should Move on and find someone that felt the same for her. its been a week and i still have the emotional connection and every day she calls asking for me back. Who knows if there is a true DJ way of breaking it off with a girl. Its ****ing live i guess.
 
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How about that old saying, "A man's gotta do, what a man's gotta do."

If you are over the relationship get the **** out...it's probably not going to get any better.

Don't be fooled though, even if you are over her if you actually ever cared for her, ending the relationship will not necessarily be an easy thing to do. But the easy way out is often for cowards...but you can remember in your mind, if it is the right thing for you then it is the right thing for her too but it could take her a while to see that.
 
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