vonbock
Senior Don Juan
I hear stories of how pool boys get laid all the time. I was wondering if any of you all have experience in this and will getting a job as the pool boy help me get girls?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Being a pool boy
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ezily
Senior Don Juan
no it will not help you get girls. you will be around one of two types of girls.
1.) high school girls who aren't very attractive at all (they are the lifeguards).
2.) annoying ugly older women
see I've discovered that attractive girls generally do not have jobs until they are older (maybe 22-23). And if you are an older guy then the ugly high school girls you see are out of the question. And the old women are just a pain to look at.
My advice: don't take a job looking to get girls. It won't work out the way you think.
1.) high school girls who aren't very attractive at all (they are the lifeguards).
2.) annoying ugly older women
see I've discovered that attractive girls generally do not have jobs until they are older (maybe 22-23). And if you are an older guy then the ugly high school girls you see are out of the question. And the old women are just a pain to look at.
My advice: don't take a job looking to get girls. It won't work out the way you think.
I think he means a pool boy like the ones who clean people's pools in their backyard, not a public pool. And he probably thinks the lonely housewife will be watching him through the window wondering what he could do that her husband couldn't. And then start nailing him on the regular while he's gone at work. Something like that I assume.
Hahaha thats the first thing I thought of when I read this thread.falcon814 said:ive seen pool boys get laid in porn................
I don't know where you heard this, but I doubt its true.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sprint
Don Juan
yeah I wish pool boys got laid all the time...
bingoIsiMan84 said:I think he means a pool boy like the ones who clean people's pools in their backyard, not a public pool. And he probably thinks the lonely housewife will be watching him through the window wondering what he could do that her husband couldn't. And then start nailing him on the regular while he's gone at work. Something like that I assume.
Customers leave tips and you will get a holiday bonus if you leave a business card with your name and address on the back. If you are well mannered, parents will intro you to their daughters. It could be a nice change for you! Best of luck to you!!
sprint
Don Juan
too many people in this thread are living in a dream world.
Haha so true. If this was the case every guy would be a pool boy, pizza delivery guy or plumber and there would be no CEO's or venture capitalists. Sure you'd be getting middle-aged tail on the regular, but have fun riding a Huffy to work every day and living with your parents. Plus you'd only be working like 3-4 months out of the year. Why am I even discussing this?
P.S. Woo hoo Master Don Juan!
P.S. Woo hoo Master Don Juan!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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I've gotten more girls working at McDonalds when I was 16 because they would send me and IM the next day or something saying "hey I saw you working at McDonalds hook me up with some free fry's!"
ready123
Master Don Juan
I'd rather be a doctor