"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being a good kisser.

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Want to know how to become a good kisser? It's so simple, but yet so overlooked. Let the girl lead the kiss if you want to be put into the 'he's a great kisser' category. Sometimes women want a soft gentle kiss, other times they want a bit more passion behind it. Unfortunately, we can't read their minds so who knows what mood they may be in, lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Generally yes, but not all the time bro. Try dominating a girl when she's in the mood to go slow and be romanced, see what kind of response you get, lol.
 

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That is a tremendous tip. Five stars.
 

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thank you sir...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
thank you sir...
Sorry I was actually being sarcastic. I know it's hard to tell sometimes.
 

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Gio I actually think Biker right on the mark here, so to hell with your sarcasm. After the most passionate makeout session I have ever experience, I asked the girl if she had any suggestions for improvement. She could only come up with one thing, and that was to try and follow the other person's mouth more. IMO I think Bikers onto something.
 

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Originally posted by Kourt
Gio I actually think Biker right on the mark here, so to hell with your sarcasm.
Yeah, well, what the hell do I know about anything?

You go right ahead and "let the girl lead" if that really makes you happy. I've never gotten complaints myself though.

I'm so used to Biker having good stuff that I thought he was joking in this thread (like making a thread to make fun of or parody someone else). And look on the bright side, the post right below it is "Light Up Her Face" which is one of the dumbest pieces of pig sh*t I've seen on this site in a long time, so this is by far not the dumbest thread in the Tips forum right now.
 

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lol yeah that other thread is pretty ridiculous

I'm sure u know quite a bit, but that dosnt mean ur omnipotent

I never said let the girl lead, you can still initiate stuff and lead while following the other persons mouth. By following the other persons mouth you can create a deeper more intense feeling of, idk the right word for it, oneness? Either way it really turns a girl on if you can tap into a mutual rythm. You can lead all the way, but sometimes by doing something like 'following her mouth' you can create deeper feelings of passion than you could by just putting her through motions. Just my thoughts . . .
 

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Originally posted by Kourt
I never said let the girl lead
I didn't say you did... Biker is the one who said that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Sorry I was actually being sarcastic.
That makes two of us.
:D
 

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Gio I actually think Biker right on the mark here

Thanks Kourt, glad you agree. I know there are people that won't agree, which is all good, but I think if they try this method, they'll like the response.
 

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Yeah if people arn't open to new ideas or trying new things, then it really makes it harder for them make new discoveries or breakthroughs that could really be helpful to them. All i'm saying is be open minded, and try new things, u just might like ur results.
 

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I bit a girls toung kissing earlier, shamed!

memo to self, never try n bite the lower lip :(
 

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i wouldnt say let her lead the kiss, that would be wrong...but i would deffinately agree with match the mood of the kiss as she starts, and lead on and be playful and tease, pull away as shes going in for another kiss, pull at her lip.

and leave her wanting more, girls usually like to finish a make out session with a long kiss then with a short one....forget the short one and give them a little grin and a wink.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think it makes quite a bit of sense to let this woman lead the kiss, particularly if the desired outcome is to get her into bed.

Let her set the intensity of the kiss. If you match her intensity and then start gradually increasing it, she'll match you back. If she starts at level 3 and you kiss her back at level 10, that's a disconnect. She's going to be thinking:
1. this guy hasn't had any action in a while
2. I wonder if he is this fast when it comes to sex (meaning she is going to think you are 2 minute man).
3. If he can't read me in this regard, what other sexual cues is he going to overlook?

But hey, if you just want to get laid and its a ONS, ignore her cues and screw her before she has time to think it through. Dont' expect a repeat performance though...and hope that she doesn't tell her friends about it because women talk.
 

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How about what *I* want in a kiss?
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
How about what *I* want in a kiss?
Ask yourself this. 'Do I want the type of kiss I'M in the mood for, or do I want to get this girl in the mood so we can move on to other things?' See what I'm getting at?
 

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Just like dancing, the guy gotta lead. But a good kiss, like everyone else has mentioned before me, has to match the woman's mood.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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