ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
I pick being a good friend... DJ's seem like all knowing social retards to me.
Than again, so do my friends.
Than again, so do my friends.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Being a good friend versus Being a good DJ
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Chillisauce
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Since when are the two terms exclusive?
Do you even know what a Don Juan is?
Do you even know what a Don Juan is?
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
They are exclusive. There are so few DJ's here who even mention ht eword friend in their posts. Nobody here talks of having friends, unless they are other PUA.
Wing's are a thing of the past, it's all solo sarging, and social proof.
Wing's are a thing of the past, it's all solo sarging, and social proof.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
What are you talking about, Willis?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ShizamDaMan
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You just gotta know the difference between friend and acquaintance.
An acquaintance is someone who you occasionally hang around, you can usually get something out of time invested with them, and they can be helpful sometimes. Not being around them is inconsequential.
A friend is someone who's got your back no matter what, regardless of how it profits them. I've bailed my real friends out of **** a ton of times, and they have done the same for me. Not being around them sucks ass, cause you are both stronger when working together.
I have really only a handful of real friends, the rest are essentially disposable acquaintances that I wouldn't think twice if they dropped out of my life.
An acquaintance is someone who you occasionally hang around, you can usually get something out of time invested with them, and they can be helpful sometimes. Not being around them is inconsequential.
A friend is someone who's got your back no matter what, regardless of how it profits them. I've bailed my real friends out of **** a ton of times, and they have done the same for me. Not being around them sucks ass, cause you are both stronger when working together.
I have really only a handful of real friends, the rest are essentially disposable acquaintances that I wouldn't think twice if they dropped out of my life.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
DaMan nailed it.
And ethnomethodologist, get your ass off the computer, anyone with 500 posts in under a month is a pathetic sod.
And ethnomethodologist, get your ass off the computer, anyone with 500 posts in under a month is a pathetic sod.