"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being a good friend versus Being a good DJ

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ethnomethodologist

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I pick being a good friend... DJ's seem like all knowing social retards to me.

Than again, so do my friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Since when are the two terms exclusive?

Do you even know what a Don Juan is?
 
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They are exclusive. There are so few DJ's here who even mention ht eword friend in their posts. Nobody here talks of having friends, unless they are other PUA.

Wing's are a thing of the past, it's all solo sarging, and social proof.
 
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Ugh, how can you not be both?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You just gotta know the difference between friend and acquaintance.

An acquaintance is someone who you occasionally hang around, you can usually get something out of time invested with them, and they can be helpful sometimes. Not being around them is inconsequential.

A friend is someone who's got your back no matter what, regardless of how it profits them. I've bailed my real friends out of **** a ton of times, and they have done the same for me. Not being around them sucks ass, cause you are both stronger when working together.

I have really only a handful of real friends, the rest are essentially disposable acquaintances that I wouldn't think twice if they dropped out of my life.
 
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DaMan nailed it.

And ethnomethodologist, get your ass off the computer, anyone with 500 posts in under a month is a pathetic sod.
 
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