ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
I pick being a good friend... DJ's seem like all knowing social retards to me.
Than again, so do my friends.
Than again, so do my friends.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Being a good friend versus Being a good DJ
- Thread starter ethnomethodologist
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Chillisauce
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Since when are the two terms exclusive?
Do you even know what a Don Juan is?
Do you even know what a Don Juan is?
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
They are exclusive. There are so few DJ's here who even mention ht eword friend in their posts. Nobody here talks of having friends, unless they are other PUA.
Wing's are a thing of the past, it's all solo sarging, and social proof.
Wing's are a thing of the past, it's all solo sarging, and social proof.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
What are you talking about, Willis?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ShizamDaMan
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You just gotta know the difference between friend and acquaintance.
An acquaintance is someone who you occasionally hang around, you can usually get something out of time invested with them, and they can be helpful sometimes. Not being around them is inconsequential.
A friend is someone who's got your back no matter what, regardless of how it profits them. I've bailed my real friends out of **** a ton of times, and they have done the same for me. Not being around them sucks ass, cause you are both stronger when working together.
I have really only a handful of real friends, the rest are essentially disposable acquaintances that I wouldn't think twice if they dropped out of my life.
An acquaintance is someone who you occasionally hang around, you can usually get something out of time invested with them, and they can be helpful sometimes. Not being around them is inconsequential.
A friend is someone who's got your back no matter what, regardless of how it profits them. I've bailed my real friends out of **** a ton of times, and they have done the same for me. Not being around them sucks ass, cause you are both stronger when working together.
I have really only a handful of real friends, the rest are essentially disposable acquaintances that I wouldn't think twice if they dropped out of my life.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
DaMan nailed it.
And ethnomethodologist, get your ass off the computer, anyone with 500 posts in under a month is a pathetic sod.
And ethnomethodologist, get your ass off the computer, anyone with 500 posts in under a month is a pathetic sod.