"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being a DJ, and applying it to everything.

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I know I'm not the first person to think of this but I'm sure there are alot of people who haven't, and I'm sure there are alot of people who need to read this.

Being a DJ is not about pulling out your bag of tricks when you see a hottie walk into the room. It's not about being good in bed. It's not about getting all the sex you want... well not completely anyway. To truly be a DJ, you have to apply the things you learn to everything you do. Think about the job you really wish you had. The way you wish people would look up to you, respect you, and like you. Or maybe you just wish that you were the ****, the cool cat in your group of friends.

Not only can you use the techniques here to manipulate (even though I don't like that word) women, but also work on how you stand in the presence of other people. Of course you probably don't want your worker buddy bob down at the construction site hitting on you (I can only hope not), but what if he really respected you, enough even to do you favors? It'd make your day easier at least. There is so much you can get out of life by using these methods. Also, if you do this enough you will become that person and no longer have to worry about your most rehearsed tendancies, what you should or should not say to a girl, your actions will become progressively calmer, smoother, and more natural.

Correct me if I'm wrong, I want your two cents too.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's more social skills then DJ'ing but it's on the same level yes. Both go into bettering yourself, just on different playing fields.
 

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I think being a DJ goes beyond women. Its something that has to be in all aspects of your life.
 

So pimp its scary

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Yes, it goes beyond women... BUT [rant]TOO many people just say that as an excuse to not be approaching women consistantly.

It's all about balance, but come on... so many guys are crybabys here. It seems that even the most basic of advice can solve the majority of the peoples problems, but seriously, the best way to solve your problems is to quit whining about your problems and do something about them, then when you get setback, you can quit whining about that to and do something about that, etc.
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PS this has been said before ;)
 
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