"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being a DJ, and applying it to everything.

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I know I'm not the first person to think of this but I'm sure there are alot of people who haven't, and I'm sure there are alot of people who need to read this.

Being a DJ is not about pulling out your bag of tricks when you see a hottie walk into the room. It's not about being good in bed. It's not about getting all the sex you want... well not completely anyway. To truly be a DJ, you have to apply the things you learn to everything you do. Think about the job you really wish you had. The way you wish people would look up to you, respect you, and like you. Or maybe you just wish that you were the ****, the cool cat in your group of friends.

Not only can you use the techniques here to manipulate (even though I don't like that word) women, but also work on how you stand in the presence of other people. Of course you probably don't want your worker buddy bob down at the construction site hitting on you (I can only hope not), but what if he really respected you, enough even to do you favors? It'd make your day easier at least. There is so much you can get out of life by using these methods. Also, if you do this enough you will become that person and no longer have to worry about your most rehearsed tendancies, what you should or should not say to a girl, your actions will become progressively calmer, smoother, and more natural.

Correct me if I'm wrong, I want your two cents too.

Stop... Think... Absorb...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's more social skills then DJ'ing but it's on the same level yes. Both go into bettering yourself, just on different playing fields.
 

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I think being a DJ goes beyond women. Its something that has to be in all aspects of your life.
 

So pimp its scary

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Yes, it goes beyond women... BUT [rant]TOO many people just say that as an excuse to not be approaching women consistantly.

It's all about balance, but come on... so many guys are crybabys here. It seems that even the most basic of advice can solve the majority of the peoples problems, but seriously, the best way to solve your problems is to quit whining about your problems and do something about them, then when you get setback, you can quit whining about that to and do something about that, etc.
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PS this has been said before ;)
 
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