"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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being a "DJ" amidst mental illness?

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Some of us young dudes have served in military or done some sort of service.
Tpsd and all life changing situations change a person.

On top of that, most of our collective families live with varying degrees of general emotional, psychological stress.
We touch base on physicality related issues here, but modern age #$elfies have disturbed our sleep, our very image is filtered through whichever lens you prefer.

Courting is dead.

Those guys that made courtship work .. Are dead.

MTV is dying in my opinion.

There is a curve curling back around to where the best man is fitted to the best woman.
I mean....both sides are finally seeing how we both need each other.

If you do your part in a healthy way, then its like magnets.



I bring up mental health with djism because its a part of it. .....that no one speaks about .
Being friends first isn't a curse.
It could help everyone.
Opening up for one day and then reflecting on that day for a week could make your life awesome.


Maybe its the shrooms talking but we have it pretty good right now and everyone is just trying to make it in this topsy turvy world.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There's no loyalty in da game no more


People cheated and been flaked on since day one.

The iPhone killed curiosity and now we have to build mystery... Like it wasn't there before.


Generally speaking. ...I can't bring the pizzazz if you already downloaded the bootleg
 

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I agree that there are a lot of mentally ill folks out there including in our families. Most are sociopath\psychopath type, not the stereotypical mentally ill one might picture. And IMO they are making their way to become the majority in our society, while DJs \ red pill guys like us are for sure the minority. As for the rest of the OPs post Im gonna need some of them shrooms.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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