"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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being a "DJ" amidst mental illness?

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Some of us young dudes have served in military or done some sort of service.
Tpsd and all life changing situations change a person.

On top of that, most of our collective families live with varying degrees of general emotional, psychological stress.
We touch base on physicality related issues here, but modern age #$elfies have disturbed our sleep, our very image is filtered through whichever lens you prefer.

Courting is dead.

Those guys that made courtship work .. Are dead.

MTV is dying in my opinion.

There is a curve curling back around to where the best man is fitted to the best woman.
I mean....both sides are finally seeing how we both need each other.

If you do your part in a healthy way, then its like magnets.



I bring up mental health with djism because its a part of it. .....that no one speaks about .
Being friends first isn't a curse.
It could help everyone.
Opening up for one day and then reflecting on that day for a week could make your life awesome.


Maybe its the shrooms talking but we have it pretty good right now and everyone is just trying to make it in this topsy turvy world.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's no loyalty in da game no more


People cheated and been flaked on since day one.

The iPhone killed curiosity and now we have to build mystery... Like it wasn't there before.


Generally speaking. ...I can't bring the pizzazz if you already downloaded the bootleg
 

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I agree that there are a lot of mentally ill folks out there including in our families. Most are sociopath\psychopath type, not the stereotypical mentally ill one might picture. And IMO they are making their way to become the majority in our society, while DJs \ red pill guys like us are for sure the minority. As for the rest of the OPs post Im gonna need some of them shrooms.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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