"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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being a "DJ" amidst mental illness?

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Some of us young dudes have served in military or done some sort of service.
Tpsd and all life changing situations change a person.

On top of that, most of our collective families live with varying degrees of general emotional, psychological stress.
We touch base on physicality related issues here, but modern age #$elfies have disturbed our sleep, our very image is filtered through whichever lens you prefer.

Courting is dead.

Those guys that made courtship work .. Are dead.

MTV is dying in my opinion.

There is a curve curling back around to where the best man is fitted to the best woman.
I mean....both sides are finally seeing how we both need each other.

If you do your part in a healthy way, then its like magnets.



I bring up mental health with djism because its a part of it. .....that no one speaks about .
Being friends first isn't a curse.
It could help everyone.
Opening up for one day and then reflecting on that day for a week could make your life awesome.


Maybe its the shrooms talking but we have it pretty good right now and everyone is just trying to make it in this topsy turvy world.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There's no loyalty in da game no more


People cheated and been flaked on since day one.

The iPhone killed curiosity and now we have to build mystery... Like it wasn't there before.


Generally speaking. ...I can't bring the pizzazz if you already downloaded the bootleg
 

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I agree that there are a lot of mentally ill folks out there including in our families. Most are sociopath\psychopath type, not the stereotypical mentally ill one might picture. And IMO they are making their way to become the majority in our society, while DJs \ red pill guys like us are for sure the minority. As for the rest of the OPs post Im gonna need some of them shrooms.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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