Being a D1ck

[Big Poppa]

Is it necessary? Can you still be nice and relaxed without being stepped all over by women?

And if you do have to turn on the "inner azzhole" what is too much? What is too little?

Sh1t I'm confused~!

 

[jeffthechef]

you dont have to be a **** to women ever...it's all p[erspective..you may think you're being a ****, she may think you're being a man

you're overthinking things...just you instinct..she tells you to walk a mile to get her book that she forgot for class...then you object..she asks you if she can borrow a pencil..let her..then smile and say she owes you..and you'll tell her what you want after class

if you do it right..she'll get that you're playing with her..and aren't expecting monetary payment or some ridiculous ****..

 

[Big Poppa]

That's the thing, if a girl asked me to run and get her book, I probably would.

Not because I want her to like me, not because I want her attention, but just because I don't mind going out of my way for people (not just girls) to help them out if they're in a spot of trouble.

I've always been like that, I loved to do volunteer work, I do charity stuff, I'm applying for the peace corps at 18. It's just how I am.

Is that so bad?

 

[Big Poppa]

That's the thing, if a girl asked me to run and get her book, I probably would.

Not because I want her to like me, not because I want her attention, but just because I don't mind going out of my way for people (not just girls) to help them out if they're in a spot of trouble.

I've always been like that, I loved to do volunteer work, I do charity stuff, I'm applying for the peace corps at 18. It's just how I am.

Is that so bad?

 

[jeffthechef]

I've been in several and still am in many community service organizations. That has nothing to do with this. Being nice and being a ***** are two different things.

If she wants you to do something as simple as sharing an eraser, why the **** not...but if she wants you to go a mile just to get her book when she could get it herself, why should you...yes i know it's the nice thing to do...but eventually she's just taking advantage of you

i'm really buddhist..i believe in karma and all that ****..perhaps you'll have good karma for getting that book..but then think about this...

by getting her book..you're reinforcing her belief that she is entitled to boss people and demand ridiculous favors...you are wrong for reinforcing her bad behavior

...you really have to be able to discern the severity of the situation...if she's seriously in need of help, of course you help...but if she's just too lazy, do as i said in my previous post

you have to develop decision making skills..

 

[Analyzeit]

it's not about being a d!ck or an a hole.

It doesn't mean you don't be nice

as you guys have said sure borrow an eraser ect.. it's all good.

Your confused because you saw the advice and you took it waay to serious, take this website with a grain of salt.

Your going to be a funny d!ck not a, "Can you go back and grab my books for me?" "**** off what i look like your *****??" d!ck lol your going to be a... What's in it for me?? d!ck lol

does that make sense lol i wouldn't even call it a d!ck. Your just being a tease, and your not letting yourself get walked over by women

 

[katatonia]

That's the thing, if a girl asked me to run and get her book, I probably would.

Not because I want her to like me, not because I want her attention, but just because I don't mind going out of my way for people (not just girls) to help them out if they're in a spot of trouble.

I'm pretty sure a girl is capable of running and getting her book herself (unless she's disabled), so why do you feel the need to help her? Funnily enough, being narcissistic (ie. putting yourself above women) makes them attracted to you. So you can either drop your AFC moralistic virtuous behaviour and increase your chances with the women, or you can keep your unhelpful behaviours and have a harder time with women AND waste your time trying to 'help' them.

The logical choice is obvious.