"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being 20 and attracting 17 year olds...

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Earlier today a girl contacted me on FB who apparently was at the same 14 july celebration as myself. And she is obviously attracted to my because when i asked why she added me she said i seemed like a "cool guy" and "I am into meeting new people lately".

It's not the first time younger girls have been attracted to me and i don't know why...
It may seem that 3 years aint a lot but when she is 17 and I am 20 it kinda is.

Any ideas why this is a thing? Maybe my personnality?

PS: she said i spoke with her that night but i don't remember because of excessive alcoohol consumption...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Earlier today a girl contacted me on FB who apparently was at the same 14 july celebration as myself. And she is obviously attracted to my because when i asked why she added me she said i seemed like a "cool guy" and "I am into meeting new people lately".

It's not the first time younger girls have been attracted to me and i don't know why...
It may seem that 3 years aint a lot but when she is 17 and I am 20 it kinda is.

Any ideas why this is a thing? Maybe my personnality?

PS: she said i spoke with her that night but i don't remember because of excessive alcoohol consumption...
If the state laws allow it bang em'.. if they dont, flirt till they are 18. When you are 40 you'll wish you slept with those hot 17 year olds.
 

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If the state laws allow it bang em'.. if they dont, flirt till they are 18. When you are 40 you'll wish you slept with those hot 17 year olds.
Don't do this at all and risk going to jail. I know so many instances of men getting screwed by this.
 

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You don't remember her ?... Seems like you're a "cool guy" and "I am into meeting new people lately". Sounds to me more like one of those fake pretty girl FB requests or you're being catfished by some dude....

If she is the real deal hope she is over 17...... Good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You don't remember her ?... Seems like you're a "cool guy" and "I am into meeting new people lately". Sounds to me more like one of those fake pretty girl FB requests or you're being catfished by some dude....

If she is the real deal hope she is over 17...... Good luck.
I'm 100% positive it happened because i asked a friend of mine who was there afterwards, and I do remember talking to someone.
 

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Think about it bro, what is really the difference between 17-20? Just wait or forget it. Plenty of legal 18 year olds that are just as hot
 

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to give you some perspective I am 24 and I would happily fvck a 17/18/19/20 year old sloot

there great at that age niave and submissive, very tight and wanting to explore there sexual desires

to add to that most 17yr olds in my area look like they are in they're early 30's
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Most parts in Europe, and Britain, are 16 of legal age of consent while 3rd world countries like Iran are like 12 or something. Australia is like 21 or some dumb feminist number.

Some states in the U.S are 6 months before 18 and I think there is one or two that is 16. A quick google search and you should find out quickly, my states is 6 months before 18 is consensual.

I would also go for it, I've noticed that 16-18 year olds are digging me more often as well.
 
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