Beginning to realize my girlfriend might be insane. Need advice if I should walk away.

[Firecrotch66]

You obviously care about her well being, which is completely normal. We are human beings after all.

This is the type of chick that would make a great FWB, but nothing more.

Probably stay with her until you find a suitable replacement

Yeah she told me she's never been in a relationship and I see why now.

 

[Focal core]

To add on another thing I've noticed with her when I call her out she immediatly flips it on me and says....actually you know what f*** it this is not even worth talking about. I'm just walk.

Dont call her out, it will end in deaf ears, projection is her every day chores, when the devaluation stage begins you may end up with gaslighting.. Not to forget those girls were master manipulators and pathological liars.

Like a, small child you must set a strong boundaries with her if you wanted to smash that pvssy longer.

Forget about ltr.. Shes not that girl.

 

[Firecrotch66]

You obviously care about her well being, which is completely normal. We are human beings after all.

This is the type of chick that would make a great FWB, but nothing more.

Probably stay with her until you find a suitable replacement

Yeah. I'm optimistic and I believe you're only as good as you are right now. Yesterday is the past focus on the now. However, I'm starting to realize this thought of mine I'm sailing alone in it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

OP, my girlfriend was also staunchly anti-vaccine. She has been fully vaccinated now for 2 weeks.

How did I change her mind?

Listen carefully. Nothing you say will directly convince her to take the vaccine. All you can do is plant the seed by questioning her objections. Ask questions. Do not insult her position.

My girl has 100% interest level in me. What put my girlfriend over the top was that my actions backed up my position. Taking the COVID-19 vaccine was ultimately going to be a deal breaker. I told her I won't bring a child into this world from a mother than can't pass the antibodies. She rolled her eyes. Then I started cancelling plans but kept talking to her as normal. I cancelled a date. Cancelled a weekend trip. And was on the verge of cancelling her spending time with my parents. In the end, her interest level in me dumping her was lower than her interest level in taking the vaccine.

She still occasionally tries to hold onto her previous position that the vaccine is bad, but she is now light hearted about it. She had minimal side effects and is in perfect health.

 

[Firecrotch66]

OP, my girlfriend was also staunchly anti-vaccine. She has been fully vaccinated now for 2 weeks.

How did I change her mind?

Listen carefully. Nothing you say will directly convince her to take the vaccine. All you can do is plant the seed by questioning her objections. Ask questions. Do not insult her position.

My girl has 100% interest level in me. What put my girlfriend over the top was that my actions backed up my position. Taking the COVID-19 vaccine was ultimately going to be a deal breaker. I told her I won't bring a child into this world from a mother than can't pass the antibodies. She rolled her eyes. Then I started cancelling plans but kept talking to her as normal. I cancelled a date. Cancelled a weekend trip. And was on the verge of cancelling her spending time with my parents. In the end, her interest level in me dumping her was lower than her interest level in taking the vaccine.

She still occasionally tries to hold onto her previous position that the vaccine is bad, but she is now light hearted about it. She had minimal side effects and is in perfect health.

I'll keep your advice for the next girl I'm with. I'm going to write it down cause it is a good tip. With this girl I broke up with her just now. I changed it to casual as she was suggesting to keep it as casual in the beginning. My lesson learned here was simple get to know the b**** before taking things serious.

Edit: One more thing. Looks are very deceiving. She can be the hottest girl alive just get to know her first. Seriously.

 

[RickTheToad]

Been trying to get her to get vaccinated. Her excuse last night was "Why should I get vaccinated if I'm not sick." Then I explained to her the whole point of vaccination is help those with autoimmune disorders not get infected. To help the elderly. To ensure there is a possibility of ending the pandemic by preventing the virus from having options to mutate. Her response was "People who have been vaccinated still get sick." I'm getting pissed off listening to this. I can't have a rational conversation with this ***** at all. Every time we talk about a rational common sense subject I get pissed to hell and she calls that "being passionate." The main topics that come up in conversation is she goes "I'm depressed. Poor me. And I think I have narcissistic personality disorder." All I can think is what the f***. I tried to get her to find a better job one that will require her full attention and she will not have time to text me while I'm at work. I don't respond obviously. She complains all the **** the time about everything. She tells me how she doesn't want to get fat and then goes to McDonalds. These contradictions don't make any sense whatsoever. I genuinely think she might be insane. She told me at one point she likes dating me because I make her feel sane. I don't understand this woman. Honestly I genuinely think she has no intentions to build a relationship. I think she is just looking for someone she can obsess about and have a steady supply of attention. I don't think she gives a **** about my life and like I said it's just a way for her to get her attention fix. It's so bizarre because in a sense she seems the perfect woman to me.

She cooks. She cleans. She's very intimate. She loves sex. She's friendly. Makes great first impressions and wants to dress sexy for me. She listens to what my pleasure mechanisms are. Yet on the other end I can't have one rational conversation with her. She wants to talk at the most inconvenient moments during the exact times I have my responsibilities to take care of. Constantly tries to get me invested in her coworkers bull****. When I ask her to do something she doesn't do it yet she says she will. I know her brother and he's a very normal dude. His gf all she told me about mine is everybody tried to get her help and they gave up. Everybody tried to get her to go see a therapist and she just won't commit to anything. For me it feels like she's just playing this weird game to get attention and that's all she cares about. Whether it's positive or negative attention she doesn't care. In terms of addiction I'm a veteran to that. I had a drug addiction for 10 years. Once an addict always an addict. I still think about it all the time. I'm addicted to sex and ironically weed. I've done harder drugs yet never had a craving for them the way I do for weed and sex. I can tell you right off the bat feels like she's a social version of a drug addict.

It seems like she knows exactly what she wants yet doing it in the most ****ed up way possible.

Like holy **** what I am even doing with this woman.

The problem is you and watching too much tv. Do you eat a lot of soy?

 

[Firecrotch66]

Dont call her out, it will end in deaf ears, projection is her every day chores, when the devaluation stage begins you may end up with gaslighting.. Not to forget those girls were master manipulators and pathological liars.

Like a, small child you must set a strong boundaries with her if you wanted to smash that pvssy longer.

Forget about ltr.. Shes not that girl.

Agreed. It's a little ironic This whole year has been a **** show on my end. There's a bunch of things I need to work on big time. Get to know girl before ****ing her. If she's dtf right from the start that's a big ass red flag. Take a step back get to know her. If she's genuinely interested in building a life with me she'll be patient. If she's to **** asap she'll drop me for another guy. Instead of getting all insecure about it just move on. Easy come, easy go. Like I said above looks are deceiving. She's a beautiful girl, however, like you said above all that projection it's not worth it. I know they are. I am too. I'm a professional when it comes to manipulating people, however, I'm also growing a conscience and I don't want to do it anymore. I don't see any benefit in consistently lying and manipulating people. All that's gotten me is burned bridges and made people think that I have a cluster b personality disorder specifically psychopathy. I don't like this. I don't like people avoiding me and being afraid of me. I want to change and I want to be someone people can trust. I want to be someone people can connect with. Someone reliable. I'd like them to know my word has no agenda behind it and I'm genuninely trying to be the best version of me that I can be.

 

[Firecrotch66]

The problem is you and watching too much tv. Do you eat a lot of soy?

That doesn't make any sense whatsoever. Go edit your comment with something that makes sense.

 

[RickTheToad]

That doesn't make any sense whatsoever. Go edit your comment with something that makes sense.

Respectfully, you have a lot of feminine energy; hence the reason why I asked if you are eating too much soy. Soy raises a dude's estrogen; and your post screams femininity and lack of understanding of knowledge, science and females. But hey, what do I know. I just work as a PA in an ER in Bridgeport, CT.

 

[DonJuanjr]

But hey, what do I know.

I was expecting you to follow this with "I'm just a toad".

 

[RickTheToad]

I was expecting you to follow this with "I'm just a toad".

Only do that when I have an intelligent or at least interesting reply to respond to, but don't agree with. I wasn't attacking the OP, just relaying the energy his post relays.

 

[Firecrotch66]

Respectfully, you have a lot of feminine energy; hence the reason why I asked if you are eating too much soy. Soy raises a dude's estrogen; and your post screams femininity and lack of understanding of knowledge, science and females. But hey, what do I know. I just work as a PA in an ER in Bridgeport, CT.

No I have a genetic condition that makes me both genders on a genetic level. Look up Klinefelters. Exterior I look like I'm being hammered with an excessive amount of testosterone and I have a hyper-sexual sex drive. I don't fit the external profile whatsoever and I don't have testerone levels to match the physical looks at all. They were only able to find it because of a sports accident I had when I was 18. It does help explain why I've never fit into either gender growing up personality wise. No-one ever saw this as a possibility in my family or friends. I come off as dude as dude can get in person yet I also happen to have a better sense of fashion and women's issues than most women. It's a mind****. My family just thought I was gay for longest time. There was a clinic that wanted to study my condition when I was 18 yet I was terrified of becoming a lab rat so I said no. There is only one other guy with Klinefelters that I know of that has my profile and the clinic is studying the guy, he's 45. Sorry to burst your bubble.

edit: Not to brag yet I got lucky as f**** with Ks. I got a big d*** cause all my intelligence went there. I got a big ass beard. I got lucky as f**** man. I'm the living tease for women who want to have adorable kids. I'm basically the definition of nature playing a practical joke on women. I appreciate nature like h*** now knowing what I'm supposed to look like. I don't take my life for granted at all knowing that nature spared me physically. Like ngl dude you know how great feels knowing that I can read women using the exact skills they're born with because I'm born with those skills. Dude I got the best of both genders. The only downside is is I'm going to have a very painful death and I'm really not looking forward to that. My bones are going to fracture. ****in can't reproduce. Just not a happy ending.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

In terms of sanity I'm far from it. I'm on wellbutrin for off label adhd treatment. I have a genetic condition where I'm born with depression. It's not blowing off the gasket. Not wanting to get vaccinated is fine just she want to meet my parents and I already met hers and I already told her that she needs to get vaccinated if she wants to meet them. She tells me she got vaccinated and now she's telling me she still hasn't done it. She's told me she likes to get her way in a sneaky way and it's just alot of this unnecessary behavior. I don't get it. This has been going on since the first day we dated.

Pro tip: don’t argue science/logic with an alt right poster with a trump avatar

 

[MatureDJ]

I've bailed out on crazy women; I think that's the reason I'm still a bachelor.

 

[Firecrotch66]

Pro tip: don’t argue science/logic with an alt right poster with a trump avatar

What avatar?

 

[MatureDJ]

No I have a genetic condition that makes me both genders on a genetic level. Look up Klinefelters. Exterior I look like I'm being hammered with an excessive amount of testosterone and I have a hyper-sexual sex drive. I don't fit the external profile whatsoever and I don't have testerone levels to match the physical looks at all. They were only able to find it because of a sports accident I had when I was 18. It does help explain why I've never fit into either gender growing up personality wise. No-one ever saw this as a possibility in my family or friends. I come off as dude as dude can get in person yet I also happen to have a better sense of fashion and women's issues than most women. It's a mind****. My family just thought I was gay for longest time. There was a clinic that wanted to study my condition when I was 18 yet I was terrified of becoming a lab rat so I said no. There is only one other guy with Klinefelters that I know of that has my profile and the clinic is studying the guy, he's 45. Sorry to burst your bubble.

edit: Not to brag yet I got lucky as **** with Ks. I got a big **** cause all my intelligence went there. I got a big ass beard. I got lucky as **** man.

Kleinfelters is a true intersex condition. Basically, the Kleinfelter's sufferer is the product of xer mother having a non-disjunction error in the sex chromosomes in her egg that became xem - i.e., that egg is XX (or even XXX, XXXX if the previous cell-split had non-disjunction ), with the complementary one (no X chromosome) being inviable if conceived with a Y sperm.

Klinefelter syndrome - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[MatureDJ]

If the OP is vaccinated, why is he worried about being infected? Isn’t that why you get vaccinated in the first place?

Uh, there is such a thing as a "breakthrough infection". That said, the chances of that being serious is quite low, at least for folks that don't have other health conditions. I'm not concerned about it myself (I got the double Moderna vax.)

 

[Firecrotch66]

Kleinfelters is a true intersex condition. Basically, the Kleinfelter sufferer is the product of his mother having a non-disjunction error in the sex chromosomes in her egg that became him - i.e., that egg is XX (or even XXX, XXXX if the previous cell-split had non-disjunction ).

Klinefelter syndrome - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Yeah bro and like I said I'm laughing like the Devil here because I'm suppposed to have a small d***, breasts, and look pretty feminine. I got the high testerone symptoms
lmaoooooooooooooooo. This condition made me from atheist to believeing there is def a God. And God and the Devil are the same person. This guy has a f**** a sense of humour man. Cause there's nothing funnier than producing a 6'3" white redhead who tans and has the attitude of a hood thug black guy, has the street cred of one, and talks again in person like Denzel Curry. Can code switch like a mothf****. Make the dude hot. Give him a desire-able penis. Give him the ability to f**** like a God. C** and keep going for hours and the best part he can never reproduce. Make him capable of making women instantly comfortable. Like I'm not even joking dude I am the living proof God has a sense of humour. I am literally a walking talking practical joke on humanity. I've been able to do every drug possible and nothing comes up on a physical. Literally dude God is real. I don't doubt that at all.

I can blend in with any race personality wise and make anyone comfortable in person and everybody is mind-****ed by my existence. Nature is crazy dude.

edit: side note lot of people think I'm a Demon. Demonic entity. The biblical version. The thing you see in horror movies. They say its in my eyes and depending what angle you look at me from my face changes. I sometimes look like someone else entirely. I had roommates who genuinely believed that I'm a vampire. I think its hilarious so I use the Lucifer archetype to make myself more attractive. Sooo who really knows. Believe what you want to believe is what I tell em. Either way if this is what people think what I am again God has a sense of humour. A dark one yet pretty good one. If I find out in the afterlife that I actually am a Demon I'm probably going to cry laughing cause even then that s***'s funny as f***. My only question will be is why tf don't I have super-powers. Come on if I'm supernatural at least give me the ability to teleport so I don't have to be stuck in traffic driving to work and make it where I can bring my friends with me so they're not stuck in traffic too.

 

[Zimbabwe]

No I have a genetic condition that makes me both genders on a genetic level. Look up Klinefelters. Exterior I look like I'm being hammered with an excessive amount of testosterone and I have a hyper-sexual sex drive. I don't fit the external profile whatsoever and I don't have testerone levels to match the physical looks at all. They were only able to find it because of a sports accident I had when I was 18. It does help explain why I've never fit into either gender growing up personality wise. No-one ever saw this as a possibility in my family or friends. I come off as dude as dude can get in person yet I also happen to have a better sense of fashion and women's issues than most women. It's a mind****. My family just thought I was gay for longest time. There was a clinic that wanted to study my condition when I was 18 yet I was terrified of becoming a lab rat so I said no. There is only one other guy with Klinefelters that I know of that has my profile and the clinic is studying the guy, he's 45. Sorry to burst your bubble.

edit: Not to brag yet I got lucky as f**** with Ks. I got a big d*** cause all my intelligence went there. I got a big ass beard. I got lucky as f**** man. I'm the living tease for women who want to have adorable kids. I'm basically the definition of nature playing a practical joke on women. I appreciate nature like h*** now knowing what I'm supposed to look like. I don't take my life for granted at all knowing that nature spared me physically. Like ngl dude you know how great feels knowing that I can read women using the exact skills they're born with because I'm born with those skills. Dude I got the best of both genders. The only downside is is I'm going to have a very painful death and I'm really not looking forward to that. My bones are going to fracture. ****in can't reproduce. Just not a happy ending.

After reading this, you have every single right to complain, no cure or treatment for it.

In the manosphere it's to common to shut down any form of rage/venting but you're probably the only one who's justified in complaining.

You're GF sounds like she has NPD, i can tell since i have it as well. It's not a good combo and she could also possibly suffer from BPD formaly known as maniac depression.

 

[Firecrotch66]

After reading this, you have every single right to complain, no cure or treatment for it.

In the manosphere it's to common to shut down any form of rage/venting but you're probably the only one who's justified in complaining.

I put in a **** of edits. I'm not really complaining. I think to some level it's funny as hell. It is lil soul crushing. I am a mutant and I can't produce copies of myself. Yet on the other end of it I am what 90% of guys want to be and what 90% of women want. I won the lottery in my lifetime. The sad part is there will only be one of me. There will never be another me. Just me and thats it.

I'm just a phenomenon nature accidentally made. It feels kinda f***ed up to be just so random ass creation. At same time don't really have a good reason to complain. Most guys have to go and read self help books I literally just need to walk up to the girl and non verbally I can disarm her and bang her within like an hour and have her come back for more. It's literally a super power. Yet at the time same time I have to face the reality that it is very likely I am going to die alone. Most women want kids. I can't give them that. I always have to make up some kind of distraction when women ask why they're super comfortable with me. I can't give them the real reason because I know if I do they will leave me. Or when guys ask whether I'm gay and I'm sitting there going well **** can't tell em either. Or when the gay guy is pissed when I reject them cause they thought I was in that community. Or when the lesbian wondering why she's attracted to me and can't figure out why. Or why I'm the exception for every single girl who's only into poc. It's very much of a f*** my life whenever they ask for an explanation so my go to has become "I'm a demon from hell" or "I'm angel from heaven" Depends on who asks. If I play up on the superstitions it saves me the pain. To some extent I realize I'm a walking fascination for people. There's very little like hey I'm human too. They're more interested in finding out what I am instead of just enjoying life and its kinda annoying.

edit: I can't relate to most guys and I can't fully relate to most women. I relate more to women than I do to guys. I understand the need to compare **** sizes 24/7 and I do it cause it's kinda fun. Beyond that I would rather have a more intelligent conversation with my dude friends. With women I relate and low key I do like fashion. I know what looks good a woman and the female form fascinates me it's beautiful. It's art in its purest form.

edit: I ended it for one and then for two she def has npd cause she...said it herself. I will make a note of the bpd.