"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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beginning third month of college...update/general field reports

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So far I gotta say I've really come a long way since September. Since I got laid a few times this summer (and had a one-night stand on Halloween last week) I've really not been making poon the center of my life this semester. College has pretty much become the focal point of my life, I'm meeting people left and right, and the list of girls I'm pursuing is almost always full (I try to keep it around 5...not too honed to deal with 10 at a time yet).

I've noticed that I'm GREAT with the diva types, since I don't let anybody get away with ****. I come across as confident...maybe just a little too much, and I've found that it's great for weeding out the "I'm a woman, be a gentleman, waaaaah" types.

Where I run into problems, though, is with the introverted and nice types (I have a bit of a nerd fixation, so they make up about half of my current plates). Since they don't do as much **** testing and tend to be polite the entire time, it's like I have nothing to build chemistry with. This isn't good, as it plants the 'nice guy' seed. I do NOT want that getting around.

Thoughts? Tips?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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easun said:
are you more introverted or extroverted?
Socially able introvert. I mostly keep to myself and like smaller circles of close friends. When I do get out there, though, I'm easily mistaken for an extrovert...I'm almost too confident. Your average Mako shark is shier than I am.
 

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You are a champ, although you made a mean remark about my post. haha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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