"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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beginning third month of college...update/general field reports

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So far I gotta say I've really come a long way since September. Since I got laid a few times this summer (and had a one-night stand on Halloween last week) I've really not been making poon the center of my life this semester. College has pretty much become the focal point of my life, I'm meeting people left and right, and the list of girls I'm pursuing is almost always full (I try to keep it around 5...not too honed to deal with 10 at a time yet).

I've noticed that I'm GREAT with the diva types, since I don't let anybody get away with ****. I come across as confident...maybe just a little too much, and I've found that it's great for weeding out the "I'm a woman, be a gentleman, waaaaah" types.

Where I run into problems, though, is with the introverted and nice types (I have a bit of a nerd fixation, so they make up about half of my current plates). Since they don't do as much **** testing and tend to be polite the entire time, it's like I have nothing to build chemistry with. This isn't good, as it plants the 'nice guy' seed. I do NOT want that getting around.

Thoughts? Tips?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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easun said:
are you more introverted or extroverted?
Socially able introvert. I mostly keep to myself and like smaller circles of close friends. When I do get out there, though, I'm easily mistaken for an extrovert...I'm almost too confident. Your average Mako shark is shier than I am.
 

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You are a champ, although you made a mean remark about my post. haha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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