"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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beginning third month of college...update/general field reports

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So far I gotta say I've really come a long way since September. Since I got laid a few times this summer (and had a one-night stand on Halloween last week) I've really not been making poon the center of my life this semester. College has pretty much become the focal point of my life, I'm meeting people left and right, and the list of girls I'm pursuing is almost always full (I try to keep it around 5...not too honed to deal with 10 at a time yet).

I've noticed that I'm GREAT with the diva types, since I don't let anybody get away with ****. I come across as confident...maybe just a little too much, and I've found that it's great for weeding out the "I'm a woman, be a gentleman, waaaaah" types.

Where I run into problems, though, is with the introverted and nice types (I have a bit of a nerd fixation, so they make up about half of my current plates). Since they don't do as much **** testing and tend to be polite the entire time, it's like I have nothing to build chemistry with. This isn't good, as it plants the 'nice guy' seed. I do NOT want that getting around.

Thoughts? Tips?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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easun said:
are you more introverted or extroverted?
Socially able introvert. I mostly keep to myself and like smaller circles of close friends. When I do get out there, though, I'm easily mistaken for an extrovert...I'm almost too confident. Your average Mako shark is shier than I am.
 

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You are a champ, although you made a mean remark about my post. haha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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