Heres a short summary about me. Im a 17 year old college student in a predominantly white college. Wasnt too good with girls in high school and middle school but ive decided to change that now. So far i've had nothing to do with girls basically this whole semester. My insecurities are i just recently got braces, have mild acne (ive tried many products but its hereditary and im still trying to get rid of them), and i have a foreign accent. I saw this forum and saw the dj bible and i plan on reading everything and start slowly implementing everything as i go along. My main question is that im not really a relationship type of person, i just want to have fwb with many girls. As i read this will the dj bible be able to help me achieve my goals or is it more for how to get a girlfriend and keeping them. Any advice really appreciated.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Before I Embark
- Thread starter Playa02
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Maximus Rex
Banned
The DJ Bible is about incorporating good habits into your lifestyle, while eliminating the bad ones. How to the "best you." Conducting yourself and living alpha males. When you've those things women will naturally come to you.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
KId.....instead of focusing on chicks....take your pimples and braces etc....and work on yourself whole sale:
1. WORKOUT...NOW!!!! Get ripped, you're not bothered by women, you have time. Set goals!!!!!
2. Eat well, sleep well, avoid substance abuse (but still party a little)
3. Read books or go online and find articles about body language and how to carry yourself...it matters.
4. Build a personal style and wardrobe......you need style!!!!
5. Don't focus on P00n right now...get your self sorted out and a p00n master you will be by default.
After the braces come off and skin clears up, you will rock the P00n!
Acknowledge that you are NOT a natural, and that becoming comfortable with women is a process.
1. WORKOUT...NOW!!!! Get ripped, you're not bothered by women, you have time. Set goals!!!!!
2. Eat well, sleep well, avoid substance abuse (but still party a little)
3. Read books or go online and find articles about body language and how to carry yourself...it matters.
4. Build a personal style and wardrobe......you need style!!!!
5. Don't focus on P00n right now...get your self sorted out and a p00n master you will be by default.
After the braces come off and skin clears up, you will rock the P00n!
Acknowledge that you are NOT a natural, and that becoming comfortable with women is a process.
thanks for the help. I've come to realize my problem is that i think about getting girls way too much. Its come to the stage where i dont even think of getting a girl as a friend my only thoughts are mostly sexual. Ive started going to hang out with my guy friends and ive said that girls are not the most important thing right now.Big Nuts said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.