Heres a short summary about me. Im a 17 year old college student in a predominantly white college. Wasnt too good with girls in high school and middle school but ive decided to change that now. So far i've had nothing to do with girls basically this whole semester. My insecurities are i just recently got braces, have mild acne (ive tried many products but its hereditary and im still trying to get rid of them), and i have a foreign accent. I saw this forum and saw the dj bible and i plan on reading everything and start slowly implementing everything as i go along. My main question is that im not really a relationship type of person, i just want to have fwb with many girls. As i read this will the dj bible be able to help me achieve my goals or is it more for how to get a girlfriend and keeping them. Any advice really appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maximus Rex
Banned
The DJ Bible is about incorporating good habits into your lifestyle, while eliminating the bad ones. How to the "best you." Conducting yourself and living alpha males. When you've those things women will naturally come to you.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
KId.....instead of focusing on chicks....take your pimples and braces etc....and work on yourself whole sale:
1. WORKOUT...NOW!!!! Get ripped, you're not bothered by women, you have time. Set goals!!!!!
2. Eat well, sleep well, avoid substance abuse (but still party a little)
3. Read books or go online and find articles about body language and how to carry yourself...it matters.
4. Build a personal style and wardrobe......you need style!!!!
5. Don't focus on P00n right now...get your self sorted out and a p00n master you will be by default.
After the braces come off and skin clears up, you will rock the P00n!
Acknowledge that you are NOT a natural, and that becoming comfortable with women is a process.
1. WORKOUT...NOW!!!! Get ripped, you're not bothered by women, you have time. Set goals!!!!!
2. Eat well, sleep well, avoid substance abuse (but still party a little)
3. Read books or go online and find articles about body language and how to carry yourself...it matters.
4. Build a personal style and wardrobe......you need style!!!!
5. Don't focus on P00n right now...get your self sorted out and a p00n master you will be by default.
After the braces come off and skin clears up, you will rock the P00n!
Acknowledge that you are NOT a natural, and that becoming comfortable with women is a process.
thanks for the help. I've come to realize my problem is that i think about getting girls way too much. Its come to the stage where i dont even think of getting a girl as a friend my only thoughts are mostly sexual. Ive started going to hang out with my guy friends and ive said that girls are not the most important thing right now.Big Nuts said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.