Heres a short summary about me. Im a 17 year old college student in a predominantly white college. Wasnt too good with girls in high school and middle school but ive decided to change that now. So far i've had nothing to do with girls basically this whole semester. My insecurities are i just recently got braces, have mild acne (ive tried many products but its hereditary and im still trying to get rid of them), and i have a foreign accent. I saw this forum and saw the dj bible and i plan on reading everything and start slowly implementing everything as i go along. My main question is that im not really a relationship type of person, i just want to have fwb with many girls. As i read this will the dj bible be able to help me achieve my goals or is it more for how to get a girlfriend and keeping them. Any advice really appreciated.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Before I Embark
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maximus Rex
Banned
The DJ Bible is about incorporating good habits into your lifestyle, while eliminating the bad ones. How to the "best you." Conducting yourself and living alpha males. When you've those things women will naturally come to you.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
KId.....instead of focusing on chicks....take your pimples and braces etc....and work on yourself whole sale:
1. WORKOUT...NOW!!!! Get ripped, you're not bothered by women, you have time. Set goals!!!!!
2. Eat well, sleep well, avoid substance abuse (but still party a little)
3. Read books or go online and find articles about body language and how to carry yourself...it matters.
4. Build a personal style and wardrobe......you need style!!!!
5. Don't focus on P00n right now...get your self sorted out and a p00n master you will be by default.
After the braces come off and skin clears up, you will rock the P00n!
Acknowledge that you are NOT a natural, and that becoming comfortable with women is a process.
1. WORKOUT...NOW!!!! Get ripped, you're not bothered by women, you have time. Set goals!!!!!
2. Eat well, sleep well, avoid substance abuse (but still party a little)
3. Read books or go online and find articles about body language and how to carry yourself...it matters.
4. Build a personal style and wardrobe......you need style!!!!
5. Don't focus on P00n right now...get your self sorted out and a p00n master you will be by default.
After the braces come off and skin clears up, you will rock the P00n!
Acknowledge that you are NOT a natural, and that becoming comfortable with women is a process.
thanks for the help. I've come to realize my problem is that i think about getting girls way too much. Its come to the stage where i dont even think of getting a girl as a friend my only thoughts are mostly sexual. Ive started going to hang out with my guy friends and ive said that girls are not the most important thing right now.Big Nuts said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.