Ok so GF of 9 yrs and I have been separated for 30 days. In the 30 days we hardly talked to each other the first 2 weeks..I did no contact then reached out and asked to talked. We talked that night and went good. She started to bring up the things that caused the separation. I calmly said lets not fight at which time she left. Week later we met again and this night went really great..We talked and watch a little TV and both of us felt great. She then left that night. Later that night we texted each other good night and thanked each other for the good talk. So last night she again came over and talked but left mad. Now all 3 times we discussed counselling and we agreed to do it...when she left she asked if I was still planned on counselling which I replied..Of Course...our first appointment is tomorrow...so here's my question... Whats it going to be like and whats your recommendations for what I need to do??