"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Been friends with this girl ALL my life

Tyson420

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Now... I want to fvck her, I practically grew up with her and knew her since we are 8 years old. I almost closed when we were 14 but I lost my chance.:rolleyes: Probably forever. We still tease and flirt though.

Do I have a chance? Or am I just being stupid?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tyson420 said:
Now... I want to fvck her, I practically grew up with her and knew her since we are 8 years old. I almost closed when we were 14 but I lost my chance.:rolleyes: Probably forever. We still tease and flirt though.

Do I have a chance? Or am I just being stupid?
Tell her what you want, if she's down she'll fvck you.. tell her and don't pressure her. Obviously you're already kind and gentle with her since you both have been friends for so long. Personally I would never make friends with a girl, only the woman I'll marry, but then again that's my woman.. Since you're friends and all you're worthy enough for her to tell you her personal past hopes and goals, from there feed it back to the b!tch and close.. this time close if that's what you want you know? haha :up:
 

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If you really like her, do something about it. She sounds more like wife or girlfriend material, not a one night stand!
 

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In my opinion, think long term. Is she a keeper? or are you just so horny you need to get inside her?

With every action comes a reaction, so prepare yourself for it bro.

If she's childhood friend, and you want to start committing yourself to her, then you better be ready for it.
 

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U have been friends w/ this girl ur whole life, then how do u plan on getting out of the friendzone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tyson420

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I don't act like, really a friend. Though I am friendzoned, it was actually me who friendzoned her. She knows my type, she knows I **** around a lot and I tell her a lot of ****. The only reason I friendzoned her 4 years ago was because she was HB6.5, but she has a very attractive personality.

We're both 19 now but I look at her like someone I could be with for the rest of my life later on. I tease her, I flirt with her, she flirts back. She broke up with her boyfriend recently and I pretty much see her in that light now.
 
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