You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Probably forever. We still tease and flirt though.You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tell her what you want, if she's down she'll fvck you.. tell her and don't pressure her. Obviously you're already kind and gentle with her since you both have been friends for so long. Personally I would never make friends with a girl, only the woman I'll marry, but then again that's my woman.. Since you're friends and all you're worthy enough for her to tell you her personal past hopes and goals, from there feed it back to the b!tch and close.. this time close if that's what you want you know? hahaTyson420 said:Now... I want to fvck her, I practically grew up with her and knew her since we are 8 years old. I almost closed when we were 14 but I lost my chance.
Do I have a chance? Or am I just being stupid?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.