You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Probably forever. We still tease and flirt though.I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tell her what you want, if she's down she'll fvck you.. tell her and don't pressure her. Obviously you're already kind and gentle with her since you both have been friends for so long. Personally I would never make friends with a girl, only the woman I'll marry, but then again that's my woman.. Since you're friends and all you're worthy enough for her to tell you her personal past hopes and goals, from there feed it back to the b!tch and close.. this time close if that's what you want you know? hahaTyson420 said:Now... I want to fvck her, I practically grew up with her and knew her since we are 8 years old. I almost closed when we were 14 but I lost my chance.
Do I have a chance? Or am I just being stupid?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.