So I been with this chick for almost 3 years and we have 3 kids 1 not by me and 2 I made with her lately she been talking about putting me out and (we live with her cousin) and things she cheated on me after our 2nd son was born with this guy and I cheated back I was a truck driver before we got together had my own house and everything but lost my license and house and all my question is I have nothing no money nothing so should I focus on getting another house before she puts me out for good or getting a car I'm thinking house but she keeps trying to argue when things get good for me
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Been a long time need advice
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifehunter
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Car....you can sleep in your car.
A house is $$$$$$$$ at these rates.
A house is $$$$$$$$ at these rates.
Desdinova
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If you're going to get rid of her, get out as soon as you can. Move in with a friend, your parents, or a small apartment. You'll be in a better headspace and be able to focus better once you eliminate the negativity from your life.
Agree with Desdinova , move out, don't wait to be kicked out with no where to go. Do this 1st.
After moving out, i would suggest the following goals;
1. For the short term, you need a job to keep your time occupied, even if it's washing dishes do it. Extra cash would be handy even if it's 5 bucks. This helps with your confidence level, that's important for moving on.
2. For your medium term goals, save what little you have on either getting back your license, if it's not possible then focus on part time trade school. Pick up a skill with certification. It's useful and in demand.
3. Long term goals, these goals should reflect your ability to be on your own, providing growth both financially and even spiritually - peacefulness - happiness.
After moving out, i would suggest the following goals;
1. For the short term, you need a job to keep your time occupied, even if it's washing dishes do it. Extra cash would be handy even if it's 5 bucks. This helps with your confidence level, that's important for moving on.
2. For your medium term goals, save what little you have on either getting back your license, if it's not possible then focus on part time trade school. Pick up a skill with certification. It's useful and in demand.
3. Long term goals, these goals should reflect your ability to be on your own, providing growth both financially and even spiritually - peacefulness - happiness.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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This was your mistake. You always stay away from single moms unless she´s rich and successful
Roober
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How does this happen AFTER you have found SS in 2012?
Even though you seem to be seriously lacking in learning capabilities, do what @Desdinova said.
Even though you seem to be seriously lacking in learning capabilities, do what @Desdinova said.