I've been out partying for a good week and the first 4 days I was doing great. All the girls loved me. But as the days went on I felt tired and stuff of hanging out. I was interested in this one girl and all my homies kept telling me to go for her and she was interested and I thought too much about it and lost it. I just want to know if there's a way to bring back my confidence and fun lovingness because right now I irritated as hell with people and wat not. Advice?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Becoming tired and losing your game. Is there a cure?
- Thread starter Rint
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