I've been out partying for a good week and the first 4 days I was doing great. All the girls loved me. But as the days went on I felt tired and stuff of hanging out. I was interested in this one girl and all my homies kept telling me to go for her and she was interested and I thought too much about it and lost it. I just want to know if there's a way to bring back my confidence and fun lovingness because right now I irritated as hell with people and wat not. Advice?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Becoming tired and losing your game. Is there a cure?
- Thread starter Rint
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