"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Becoming tired and losing your game. Is there a cure?

Rint

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I've been out partying for a good week and the first 4 days I was doing great. All the girls loved me. But as the days went on I felt tired and stuff of hanging out. I was interested in this one girl and all my homies kept telling me to go for her and she was interested and I thought too much about it and lost it. I just want to know if there's a way to bring back my confidence and fun lovingness because right now I irritated as hell with people and wat not. Advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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prairiedog24

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Get a life outside partying to feed your social life. If your only interest in life is partying you're probably a boring person.

Not trying to be harsh, just saying. Just like a good dinner, shower, and evening curled up in front of the tv are sweetest after a really hard day of physical labor, a day of partying is best when you're really enjoying getting out and having the fun.

If you do it every day, it's no longer fun, it's just work.
 
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