I've been out partying for a good week and the first 4 days I was doing great. All the girls loved me. But as the days went on I felt tired and stuff of hanging out. I was interested in this one girl and all my homies kept telling me to go for her and she was interested and I thought too much about it and lost it. I just want to know if there's a way to bring back my confidence and fun lovingness because right now I irritated as hell with people and wat not. Advice?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Becoming tired and losing your game. Is there a cure?
- Thread starter Rint
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