Well I just came back from this huge band afterparty and needless to say, it was a very cool party which a lot of people came to. But the bad thing is I was anything but the life of the party. I was loud, eccentric and sh*t, but in the end no one really paid attention to that and I wasn't really the life of the party. I was very loud and energetic but the life of the party was elsewhere. And guess what -- Amanda was there and I had a lot of chances to game her but didn't and I feel pathetic for that. The only time I really talked to her was when I said "Yo Amanda, what happened to your hair?" and she was like "Oh I curled it, for fun". Yeah, so that sucked. But dude, how do you become the life of the party? How do you control the interaction at a party?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Becoming the LIFE of the party.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
The secret to becoming the life of the party is that their is no such thing as the life of the party.
I always see a bunch of friends together, but never have I seen everyone centered around a single person.
I suppose if you want to become the center of your party, live an exciting life and have exciting stories to tell.
comic_relief
I always see a bunch of friends together, but never have I seen everyone centered around a single person.
I suppose if you want to become the center of your party, live an exciting life and have exciting stories to tell.
comic_relief
Dongfu
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Some days you feel better than others. When you are on, you will naturally attract more attention, and people will gravitate to you. Rather than trying to win over the entire party, I like to be the life of the party for the girl i'm interested in.
Let some other big mouth get all the attention, meanwhile, casually, calmly you move in for the kill.
Let some other big mouth get all the attention, meanwhile, casually, calmly you move in for the kill.
PigAdlemPimp
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Dude if you desperately want to become the life of the party you never will because you are too worried about it.
Become the type of dude that the hot babes desire, never be affraid to say and do what you want when you are around hot babes.
Never do things to impress a hot babe, never fear being rejected by one, don't ever worry about what any hot babe thinks about you.
Just talk to the hot babes like you would an ugly dude, don't pay them any special attention, if you want to fvck a hot babe reveal this to her, if she doesn't want you to fvck her, shrug it off don't even think about it, keep on asking until you get what you are after.
Become the type of dude that the hot babes desire, never be affraid to say and do what you want when you are around hot babes.
Never do things to impress a hot babe, never fear being rejected by one, don't ever worry about what any hot babe thinks about you.
Just talk to the hot babes like you would an ugly dude, don't pay them any special attention, if you want to fvck a hot babe reveal this to her, if she doesn't want you to fvck her, shrug it off don't even think about it, keep on asking until you get what you are after.
Kev07
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Well the only times I've ever been the life of a party was when I was just messing around with my buddies and didn't give a crap.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
forget about this amanda b1tch. Maybe I'm missing something, but why the hell are you chasing her around? Either she's interested in you or she isn't. Try asking her out. If her interest level isn't HIGH, then find someone better.
Thanks for the advice guys. And about Amanda, why do I keep chasing her? Well I'm attracted to her of course. The only reason I didn't go up to her last night is because she's always hanging with this guy friends of hers. But what do I got to worry about? They dated and she dumped him, nows his turn to let someone else have a try. Excuses aside I just didn't approach her because of insecurities in my own game.
Kev07 said:Well the only times I've ever been the life of a party was when I was just messing around with my buddies and didn't give a crap.
Same, when your just vibing real well with your best buds and doing stupid stuff, people are naturally attracted to you. But, for me at least, the catch 22 of this is that when your doing that with your friends you don't really care about being the life of the party and just usually blow other people off nicely when they try to talk to you.