Well I just came back from this huge band afterparty and needless to say, it was a very cool party which a lot of people came to. But the bad thing is I was anything but the life of the party. I was loud, eccentric and sh*t, but in the end no one really paid attention to that and I wasn't really the life of the party. I was very loud and energetic but the life of the party was elsewhere. And guess what -- Amanda was there and I had a lot of chances to game her but didn't and I feel pathetic for that. The only time I really talked to her was when I said "Yo Amanda, what happened to your hair?" and she was like "Oh I curled it, for fun". Yeah, so that sucked. But dude, how do you become the life of the party? How do you control the interaction at a party?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Becoming the LIFE of the party.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
comic_relief
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The secret to becoming the life of the party is that their is no such thing as the life of the party.
I always see a bunch of friends together, but never have I seen everyone centered around a single person.
I suppose if you want to become the center of your party, live an exciting life and have exciting stories to tell.
comic_relief
I always see a bunch of friends together, but never have I seen everyone centered around a single person.
I suppose if you want to become the center of your party, live an exciting life and have exciting stories to tell.
comic_relief
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Some days you feel better than others. When you are on, you will naturally attract more attention, and people will gravitate to you. Rather than trying to win over the entire party, I like to be the life of the party for the girl i'm interested in.
Let some other big mouth get all the attention, meanwhile, casually, calmly you move in for the kill.
Let some other big mouth get all the attention, meanwhile, casually, calmly you move in for the kill.
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Dude if you desperately want to become the life of the party you never will because you are too worried about it.
Become the type of dude that the hot babes desire, never be affraid to say and do what you want when you are around hot babes.
Never do things to impress a hot babe, never fear being rejected by one, don't ever worry about what any hot babe thinks about you.
Just talk to the hot babes like you would an ugly dude, don't pay them any special attention, if you want to fvck a hot babe reveal this to her, if she doesn't want you to fvck her, shrug it off don't even think about it, keep on asking until you get what you are after.
Become the type of dude that the hot babes desire, never be affraid to say and do what you want when you are around hot babes.
Never do things to impress a hot babe, never fear being rejected by one, don't ever worry about what any hot babe thinks about you.
Just talk to the hot babes like you would an ugly dude, don't pay them any special attention, if you want to fvck a hot babe reveal this to her, if she doesn't want you to fvck her, shrug it off don't even think about it, keep on asking until you get what you are after.
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Well the only times I've ever been the life of a party was when I was just messing around with my buddies and didn't give a crap.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
forget about this amanda b1tch. Maybe I'm missing something, but why the hell are you chasing her around? Either she's interested in you or she isn't. Try asking her out. If her interest level isn't HIGH, then find someone better.
Thanks for the advice guys. And about Amanda, why do I keep chasing her? Well I'm attracted to her of course. The only reason I didn't go up to her last night is because she's always hanging with this guy friends of hers. But what do I got to worry about? They dated and she dumped him, nows his turn to let someone else have a try. Excuses aside I just didn't approach her because of insecurities in my own game.
Kev07 said:Well the only times I've ever been the life of a party was when I was just messing around with my buddies and didn't give a crap.
Same, when your just vibing real well with your best buds and doing stupid stuff, people are naturally attracted to you. But, for me at least, the catch 22 of this is that when your doing that with your friends you don't really care about being the life of the party and just usually blow other people off nicely when they try to talk to you.