"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Becoming Officially exclusive

BongDuy

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Im in highschool. Long story short, I've been walking this girl to class and getting kisses ( yes, real kisses. not that cheek crap) from her for a week straight so far. This has caught the attention of everyone, friends and strangers. This means they will approach me and say " Whats the deal with you and XXX?" or " Are you and XXX going out?"

I simply reply with a " we're not official yet." or I smile and walk away. I'm thinking it's time to make it official, because everyone seems to assume we're a couple, so if i get a little too flirty with other girls, they will tell XXX that im messing around with other chicks, which screws me over with XXX and gives me a bad rep in school, which isn't good.

How should I make it Official? I don't want to ask
" Do you want to be my girlfriend?"
" Do you want to date me?"
"Will you go out with me?"

Im trying to condition myself not to ask anymore when it comes to talking to girls. What are some other ways to make it official?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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You've got her in the palm of your hand. Its time to take her out.

Don't ask her for a date, TELL HER she's coming with you on one. Say something like "I wanna go to xxx and you're gonna come with me!"

It needs to be done with confidence, or it won't work.
 
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