"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Becoming Officially exclusive

BongDuy

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Im in highschool. Long story short, I've been walking this girl to class and getting kisses ( yes, real kisses. not that cheek crap) from her for a week straight so far. This has caught the attention of everyone, friends and strangers. This means they will approach me and say " Whats the deal with you and XXX?" or " Are you and XXX going out?"

I simply reply with a " we're not official yet." or I smile and walk away. I'm thinking it's time to make it official, because everyone seems to assume we're a couple, so if i get a little too flirty with other girls, they will tell XXX that im messing around with other chicks, which screws me over with XXX and gives me a bad rep in school, which isn't good.

How should I make it Official? I don't want to ask
" Do you want to be my girlfriend?"
" Do you want to date me?"
"Will you go out with me?"

Im trying to condition myself not to ask anymore when it comes to talking to girls. What are some other ways to make it official?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova

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You've got her in the palm of your hand. Its time to take her out.

Don't ask her for a date, TELL HER she's coming with you on one. Say something like "I wanna go to xxx and you're gonna come with me!"

It needs to be done with confidence, or it won't work.
 
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